It seems as if a guy is not in love with you the first week then he will never fall in love. Every guy I know seemed to like their chosen woman right away, like the third day. I have never had a man , no I am not ugly, so I don't know and don't want to sit around waiting as I am dating new guys. How long did it take before your man asked him to finally be your girlfriend. Weeks, days, months? Pretty please help
2006-10-24 08:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my man is was not in love with me in the first week. It takes time before a boy will ask you to be his gurl He has to see if hes feeling you or not it shouldnt take months but it might takea about two or three weeks. Thats how long i wait. And if he dosent ask you and you like hima nd think he likes u write ask him to go with you.
2006-10-24 08:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a man:
I believe it depends on if I'm looking for a girlfriend or just someone to have a little fun with.
How do you know he wants a girlfriend?
We don't all have the time to maintain a regular romantic relationship. That takes a lot of time and attention that's not always available.
This doesn't mean we're using you. It means that now just isn't the right time for us to establish a new relationship with all the expectations that follow.
I try to be upfront about this. Problem is you gals always believe you can change a man.
I'd say ask the guy what he's looking for in his life and this relationship. It's a little upfront, but honest. If he can't answer after a few weeks, cut bait.
Good Luck
2006-10-24 08:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually if there is an immediate attraction and connection. I would expect he would ask right away. However, some people are more guarded in relationships and it takes a while longer to figure them out. So just depending on the people involved? it could be a short period of time or several months.... why rush it?
2006-10-24 08:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I met over a year ago...he told me that within a few weeks, he knew that he really liked me and was attracted to me, as I was to him. But we decided to stay friends because at the time, we were both dating other people. A year later, after knowing each other so well, and falling in love, we finally got together. So it's different for everyone, I suppose.
2006-10-24 08:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different stages of love.
Simple attraction, maybe at first sight or after a few words.
There is that initial infatuation which starts after a date of a few dates and goes on for three months or a year.
The initial infatuation will taper off and turn into real love or not. Never confuse infatuation with real love and a true bond of trust and respect.
2006-10-24 08:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man to fall in love it normally takes somewhere between 5 minutes and never.
2006-10-24 08:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has alot to do with the man. Some men fall in love at first look while others avoid it until their heart tells them it's the right time.
2006-10-24 08:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Myron M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I fall in love really quick, and I've had to wait (and am currently waiting) for the girl to fall in love witn me. 3rd day seems a little soon though. I knew in a couple of months
2006-10-24 08:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by stopthadamnwar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It usually takes about 90 days for it to get into his system.
2006-10-24 08:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes exactly 19,351,214,264 nano seconds!!!
2006-10-24 08:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋