we have been together for 8 months, he moved in with me, but has changed completly, he does no pick up after himself, and that bugs me, even if I as him to a million times, now he drives my car, does not like me hanging out with certain people, and I feel not like myself anymore.
2006-10-24 08:01:19 · 21 answers · asked by Crys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its time just to sit down with him tell him times up and tell him you still like him you just need your space back for now. This should prevent him from stealing your stuff when he goes.
2006-10-24 08:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just said it point blank. I threw all of his stuff into his car then I called him and said come get your car. When he got there we argued for a minute but in the end I won. He was gone and my house was my house again. The hardest part is remembering all the reasons you want him gone when he is standing in front of you. I am a pretty strong person so it wasn't that hard but you might have some problems if you are easily talked out of things.
2006-10-24 08:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jeni_Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see two main points in your question: Age and Love. If you are under 25, then I think you should leave, and learn to deal with your loss. If you are above 25, and do truly like spending time with this person, then stay. You will take your chances about contracting the disease. To me, this is simply an equation of honesty, maturity, and life-commitment
2016-05-22 08:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down, tell him that you can't do this anymore. Tell him you want to move on and that you don't think a future is possible with him. No matter what he says, tell him that you're sorry, but you really don't think that's gonna work. Tell him he needs to out of the house immediately and that he can pick up his stuff, whenever he's settled someplace new.
2006-10-24 08:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have all the locks changed and put all of his stuff outside the door while he is out of the house. Call the police if he makes a scene. He should get the message loud and clear.
2006-10-24 08:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't changed, it's just that now that the two of you are living together you are noticing more things about him. If you really want to end the relationship than just tell him. Give him until the end of the week to get all his stuff out.
2006-10-24 08:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can "talk you into" anything...it's just a subconsciene excuse for doing what you know is the wrong thing.
Tell him to leave...he can't talk you out of anything you don't want talked out of. Better to do now when you only have 8 months between you.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 08:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can not talk you into letting him stay unless that is what you want. You can tell him strongly, "I want you to leave this weekend and if you don't, I will file a police report. Stand your ground and whenever he try to talk to you about it, tell him you don't want to hear, just leave and that you are dead serious about getting the cops involved. If he starts saying he has no place to go, which is one of their favorite lines, tell him that is not your problem, just leave. If he has to leave, believe me, he will find some place to stay. Don't feel guilty about it either. Think of getting your freedom back and your home. Good luck.
2006-10-24 08:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, just tell he needs to go, things aren't working out the way you thought they would, maybe you moved in together too soon. And honestly, i can't believe you two moved in together after only 8 months, that's way too soon. Try to give it more time next time.
2006-10-24 08:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking advantage of you, call your father or the police and ask him to leave with them there. Take no chances it sounds like he has nothing and if you kick him out he may get violent. Be safe call your Dad uncles brothers or the cops and then tell him to leave. Trust me here, better safe than sorry or beaten or dead
2006-10-24 08:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by feargov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋