I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks.. But we had went together for 2 yrs prior to that. But the other day this guy that likes me had grabbed me and kissed me. My boyfriend's friend saw and he went back and told him and now I don't know how to tell him I'm sorry because he won't talk to me. He doesn't brush me off but he just keeps saying that it was unexpected and that he should have known... But I've never cheated on him and that really hurts. Plus right now, I'm going through this really difficult time and I really need him to be there for me. What should I do?.....
2006-10-24 07:59:38 · 12 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the guy that kissed me.. We were friends and I was trying to tell him that I had a boyfriend. I didn't enjoy it and my boyfirend's friend tells him everything. Doesn't matter what it is...
2006-10-24 08:17:26 · update #1
Well, start off graveling and really apologetic explain the situation that the guy kissed you and you didn't return the kiss and you are soo sorry.
But to prove you did nothing wrong apologize good one time, if he doesn't accept it and still acts mad be like "I didn't do anything wrong, if you don't believe me or trust me then screw this I'm outta here. I'm done apologizing". I betcha that will work! He is hurt and will milk this as long as you let him milk it. And if he can't get over it then why waste anymore of your time!
2006-10-24 08:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him.
If you didn't fight the kiss then IT is your fault and you DID cheat on him.
If not I would file charges against this guy for sexual assault and show your boyfriend the police report.
If you really want to convince him then you better follow through and hope he gets charged with something.
Then you need to still apologize and drop to your knees and apologize into the microphone. Offering to have a threesome with your hot girlfriend would help too.
2006-10-24 15:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am missing half the story here did u like the kiss ? did u tell him to get off of u ? also i think if ur anwsers yes and no then i would highly talk to him and then give him a break and also after that break talk to him again and if u r going though things let him know that tell him that ur not lieing
2006-10-24 15:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lemme get this right. you're mindin your own business and some guy that like's YOU "grabbed u and kissed u" against your will and u did what? because if u protested or looked like u had a problem with it your bf's friend wouldn't have told your bf that u did anything wrong. in fact he probably would've checked this "guy that likes u". u probably enjoyed it. don't sit here and portray yourself as some innocent victim of circumstances here. i imagine that it's similar silly behavior that lead to your first break up.
2006-10-24 15:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you are sorry exspress all your feelings and then take what he says. HE is not wrong you are whether your fault or not there is no way to not avoid a non-wanted kiss. Stick and move hope he forgives you if he doesn't you learn your lesson.
2006-10-24 15:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should go and talk to him and make him understand that it was not your fault. If he really likes you till now he will believe you otherwise ..... .
2006-10-24 15:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by naughty teen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write em a note. explain exactly what happened. then cross your fingers and start praying. If at first you dont succeed try try again
2006-10-24 15:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got nothing to be sorry for. Tell him what happened and if he still thinks that he, "should have known" then forget about him and move on.
Like I said you've got nothing to be sorry for, it wasn't your fault that other idiot kissed you.
2006-10-24 15:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him
write him a letter
or a email
2006-10-24 15:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are sorry - but it's up to him if he wants to forgive you or not...
2006-10-24 15:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋