This girl i really like says she likes me but wont go out with me cuz i went out with her friend but she went out with my friend 2. i asked her if she would ever give me a chance and if not just say "NEVER" and all she said is "srry i have a b/f". Do i ever have a chance? it feels like i'm her just in case boy. If not should i use her to meet new girls? I'm a nice guy and trying to change into the everyday trying to get in ur pants guy cuz i'm sick of bein used and crying. i know i wont ever change, its like hardwired into my brain to be a gentleman to girls and my biggest fear is being alone and if i dont have some1 to love soon i'm afraid i might relapse and start hitting the lightbulb again and i've already had a couple heart attacks but at least if i die i'd be free of my torment but i'm not suicidal, i just welcome death with open arms
2006-10-24 07:58:50 · 2 answers · asked by telumdedeus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to wait and see if she changes her mind if not then you need to let go and move on to someone new
2006-10-24 08:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all pray, life is worth living. Sometimes we are by ourselves so God can prepare us for "the one" or our next relationship that we may have to learn from. God designed someone for you even before you were created. Its up to you to be patient and wait on that person. Everyone wants someone to call their own. I don't know why as women we go for the hard to get bad guy sometimes(I'm guilty) but it sounds like you have a good heart and you will find your special someone. If the girl says she has a boyfriend just leave her alone, even if she went out with you , what's the use when she has an bf? If you can't "just be her friend", then you should leave her alone all together. Don't open yourself up to get hurt.People only do what we allow them to do. If her and the guy break up and she is interested, trust she will let you know. I know I'm breaking the code by telling you this:women like it for guys to be somewhat of a challenge. If you back off she may just approach you if she is interested. If not there are plenty of other girls and don't forget your rib is still out there somewhere. Now that's something to look forward to. Best Wishes!
2006-10-24 15:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by KS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋