Its seems she treats all her friends good, no attitude and when it cums to me it bothers her to acknowledge the things i do for her and when i do simple things, wanting her support shes just never in the mood to listen..
2006-10-24 07:45:46 · 15 answers · asked by Cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JUST GIVE HER LOTS OF LUV . BUT DON'T SMOTHER HER.
LET HER BE HER OWN PERSON SHE WILL LEARN IN TIME ALL OF THE THINGS YOU DO FOR HER. BUT YOU SHOULD DO THEM OUT OF LUV NOT FOR RECIEVING THANX AND GRATITUDE. THAT'S JUST MY OPINION ANYWAY. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-24 09:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by cob_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is a 5 year old. you shouldn't be talking to her about anything other than 5 year old stuff. She doesn't acknowledge the things you do for her because that's what parents do. We change their diapers, feed them, teach them how to tie shoe laces. We support them and encourage them, love them unconditionally. We get our support, encouragement and unconditional love from other adults, not our children. .
Added later -- After reading all the other answers I see that I miss understood. I thought the "my girl of 5 years" was your daughter.
Maybe you should dump the girl and try a man. Theres a reason sweet and salty go so well together!!
2006-10-24 07:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being a selfish little female try and do some nice things for yourself let her know you bought a nice shirt for yourself because you desrve it and you appreciate yourself let her know that you appreciate when people do nice things for you and that you like to do nice things for people also but its when they dont even apprciate it is when it makes you wonder if its even worth it, you probably spoiled her so she doesnt think twice about it calm down on your giving if she gets going than you know what it was all about if she starts asking why you dont buy her anymore stuff then that would be your time to tell her why it takes a hell of along time to work with a woman so your five years are only the begining and the only way to change is to be strong and assertive if your not marriying her just stop your spending and go find someone who apprcaites you maybe one of her freinds realizes what a nice guy you are but find someone new if you need to good luck
2006-10-24 07:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people treat the ones closest to you the worst. It's just a matter of relationship skills. Some people (not eveyrone) like that are either immature, have bad relationships, or have some kind of underlying problem.
I have very very few relationship problems. Why? Because I have good relationship skills, and have passed them on to my partner. I always read these types of questions on here, and it's always the same answer- relationship skills!!!!!!! Communication, maturity, emotional IQ, etc.
She just needs to learn a few things and adapt to them. Some people are capable of doing so, but very few. Good luck.
2006-10-24 07:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk to her and tell her things that is going good in your life do she always change the subject? If you tell her when things are going wrong do she feed of it do she want to hear more do she taunt you with the info you give her? If you have answered yes to these Questions she is jealous of you, she is not your real friend and if you continue to be hers keep her on a short leash.
2006-10-24 07:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let your daughter know first of all you are the grown-up in this case. If you tell her to do something she needs to understand you are the boss. You feed her not her friends. You put food on the table not them. I am 15 years old and my mama let me know who is the boss and who is running the show.
2006-10-24 07:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by ebony d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think what can be reason to be like that. Maybe you are the problem with your problems for her. You want be her friends - what if she doesn't be yours.
Get better, find somebody else to deal with.
Be in your mind independent - don't ask just do the best for yourself /just think twice before you do/.
2006-10-24 07:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you both hot and over 18? If so I would suggest taking naked photos and video of the two of you having sex and posting it on youtube or here. This will solidify your relationship and make you much happier.
2006-10-24 07:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good. I think you are doing the right thing. Oh wait what was the question?
2006-10-24 07:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boundaries...happen to my ex wife and myself...answer this question:
How much do you value her?
How much does she value you?
It sucks really, cause you're hoping the person you value would feel the same. Doesn't always happen.
2006-10-24 07:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋