I want to wait but it is hard!!
2006-10-24 07:44:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, wait for marriage to have sex. Lots of things in life are hard- so what?
2006-10-24 07:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I assume that you are male but I'm not sure because of the conflict with your question. If you don't have sex before marriage you waste the most valuable time of your life. Men are at their sexual apex when they are 18 years old. It doesn't get any better than that. Also, you owe it to your future partner to gain as much experience as you can so that sex won't become a dud for her. It's your duty as a prospective spouse to learn as much as you can, so your bride and you can both enjoy it to the utmost.
2006-10-24 07:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I personally believe in waiting until after getting married to have sex. I, myself, am waiting, because I know I'm worth waiting for, plus I see no need to be hasty and/or rush to have sex.
2006-10-24 07:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by K 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, No you don't.
Listen to your body and have sex with a woman.
If you are denying yourself this natural act then you deny your own humanity.
This whole "sex before marriage" idea can come from only one of two places:
1- Your mind has been warped by your girlfriend and it is HER decision and not yours. In which case you need to find a new girl who is not a psyco.
2- you have been brainwashed by religion.
2006-10-24 07:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say no. You should get it out of your system before you get married. With lots of different partners but play safe. you see people who wait or more liekly to cheat after they get married because they see they missed out on a lot while they was single
2006-10-24 07:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To not have sex before marriage (or any other sin for that matter) is always going to be hard. But rest assured you can do it. Stay true to yourself, and give your future wife/husband a true gift on their wedding night. Hopefully they will have done the same.
2006-10-24 07:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait. Trust me, you will have less of a mystery if you don't wait. You will have a whole new world open up to you right when you get married if you wait.
2006-10-24 07:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes.
2006-10-24 07:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by shelbykittygirlie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Waiting has it's advantages: no AIDS, no physical complecations with bad relationships and so on. However, this can also make you VERY BAD IN BED. Go with your smarts not your heart. make your own decision.
2006-10-24 07:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO! You better try the milk before you buy the cow! You may not like the person afterwards, it may be terrible sex, your partner may have a mole that you just cant get past! Try it BEFORE you buy it!
2006-10-24 07:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by lee911 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋