he doesnt go out he stays home with me all the time he wont go anywere with his friends unless i can come he doesnt talk to any of his girl friends any more its all about me but hes mean to me he yells at me and he accuses me of things i dont do he tells me he loves me but sometimes it doesnt seem like it he can be so sweet then some times act like a jerk does he love me? im not saying im perfect but neither is he
2006-10-24 07:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of him. Yea it is sweet he wants to stay with you but it kinda sounds like he is over bearing and is only around you all the time to do make sure you aren't doing something. I'm not there when all this goes on so only you know if are willing to put up with his yelling and stupid rants. I guess the question is does the good outweigh the bad?
2006-10-24 07:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has trust issues or something is bothering him. He should as if he is a little crazy. Please be careful. Only you really know if he loves you or not. You wouldn't be asking this questions if you didn't have any doubts about his love for you. Love is blinding at times but don't get in so deep that you can't see what the truth really is. If he is yelling at you and accusing you of things then you need to really analyze your relationship. GOOD LUCK!! P.S. Maybe you'll need to sometime about from each other. Your boyfriend make have a control problem too.
2006-10-24 07:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am sorry to tell you this but if he is yelling (which is verbal abuse) at you and accuse you of thing that aren't true (which are signs of jealousy) he is not be the right man for you.
I find it interesting that before you listed his flaws you listed all the things you believe to be good traits. However, did you notice that all the items you consider to be good traits have nothing to do with loving you? If he loves you, he would treat you well and want your love to grow.
Remember: No one on this walking on this earth is perfect but that is no excuse for mistreating others!
2006-10-24 07:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you but yall got to get out of the house g/f. He is yelling cause yall are cooped up all the time. GO out have fun.Go to a movie or to get something to eat or just walk around and window shop or anything.Who can stand to stay home all the time. Take a walk everyday.If you stay occupied with things you done have time to yell. .
2006-10-24 07:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by blueberry_coconut_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a classic abuser. Dump the jerk, he'll only get worse as time goes on. If you stay with him you're telling him it's ok to treat you badly. You shouldn't settle for someone being sweet to you just sometimes. If you stay you'll begin to think that's all you deserve. Run away from his as fast as you can, find somoene who deserves you.
2006-10-24 07:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by snickers808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, leave the abusive b@stard. Can you say mentally abusive? Your letting him do all this, stop it by stopping the relationship.
2006-10-24 07:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by GreenGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves does but you deserve better treatment than that regardless of how much he "loves" you
2006-10-24 07:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by EvilJames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask this question then, no he probably does not. Move on and set him free.
2006-10-24 07:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gotham*City*Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has a different understanding of what love is then you do.
2006-10-24 07:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he loves you but if he treats you badly, then can you really love him?
2006-10-24 07:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋