i think im going out with this guy and i don't know if he really likes me or is just taking advantage of me. i've asked him and he says he really likes me but i'm totally unsure
2006-10-24 07:22:44 · 23 answers · asked by cutiepie ;) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHEn he wants sex all the time and nothing else your being used.
2006-10-24 07:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your unsure your instincts are letting you know that something is not on the straight and narrow with him. You know your being used if he only calls you when he wants something or needs something from you. People like this can manipulate you and make you think its untrue but trust your gut instinct and since you are asking this question there is a part of you that doubts the relationship. I would re-evaluate where I want to be if I was you and it is definately not with someone who will use you. There are better guys than that out there who will treat you right.
2006-10-24 07:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship it is give and take. If you are the one always giving and he's always the one taking you are being used. Just keep in mind that relationships are about compromise and respect. If you are unsure about your relationship then go talk to him and see what he says. If he doesnt talk to you then you'll know and he is all about what you can do for or give him get out.
2006-10-24 07:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the question should be, " Are you letting yourself be used ?"
In either case, you can test the alleged user by denying him/her favors in the area you suspect that you are being used.
If it's sex, put it off for a short time. Do the same for whatever area of suspect it is. If they can handle a few polite, "no's", from you, then their find. However, if they don't handle well, ( especially in a non life or deaf situation), you may want to re-think your relationship with this person(s).
Please note: If it's GOD that's using you, then do it, and do it well !
2006-10-24 07:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by snapshotok2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not believe his answer? What's he doing to or toward you that makes you feel "used"? Being used implies you aren't getting anything in return...are you always having to bend or compromise or adapt, and he never does? Is the relationship all about his likes and needs, and never yours?
If you feel you are being used, then stop allowing it...that doesn't mean the relationship has to end, but you don't have to do things that cause you to feel used...
2006-10-24 07:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are just laying up with him and there is no conversation or common interest then more than likely he is using you, or just interested in the physical aspects of the relationship.
2006-10-24 07:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya have to ask this question then a) you're being used or b) you have an issue with trust.
Pick one and go for it!
2006-10-24 07:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all what do you do for him if you feel used??? If your like paying for everything or giving him money or he supposedly borrows but never pays back then yes your being used!!!
2006-10-24 07:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being used is a matter of each person. If you feel used then you are.
2006-10-24 07:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by trooperthorntton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot go by asking.
does he seem to care about you, notice what you like?
does he remember what you did or said?
does he do special little things or write poems or songs for you?
does he call you a lot?
go by his behavior, not by what he says.
2006-10-24 07:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋