have watch my son play on JV for 2 years they are undeated and he makes pics intersection and touchdown all the time. great receiver people always ask why isn't he on varsity. I thought at once it was his age he is only 16 but then 2 coaches on the varsity team as told my other son that he should go to another school if he wants to play and the other coach told my husband that he is the best player they have on the team but they don't like his attitude. My son is a happy child when I say happy I mean happy he is always up beat joy ful and all the kids love him. I believe that the coaches think he is not serious because he is so happy but i can't see why because he is always at every pratice and summer camp and plays the game well and he also wants to go to college. need help please
2006-10-24 07:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your son sounds like my son. It may be that there is just too much talent on the team and not a matter of the coach not liking him. Or it could be that your son is "too nice" for football. Maybe he needs to show more of a "killer instinct" which coaches seem to like better than the nice guy image. Just keep supporting him and tell him to keep doing his best. If it's meant to be, it will happen.
2006-10-24 07:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i'm undecided that the coaches have the wonderful physique of recommendations a coach is like that 0.33 confirm or that absent confirm - notwithstanding your son is doing it quite is combating him from fidgeting with JV then the coaches could have pointed out and rectified that project by now. i might hardship, have a communique with the coach , be effective, hear. Open up the verbal exchange avenues. in step with risk they do in comparison to you or your husband - (did no longer recommend that to be sarcastic) in simple terms preserving it genuine - often times mom and dad that can force instructors and coaches nuts. by all potential verify it out nevertheless it may be a shame for him to alter faculties so late in the sport - its previous 0.5 time for HS for him at sixteen.
2016-10-16 08:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attitude can make the difference between a good player and a great player. if your son is a great player but his attitude stinks then yeah, i wouldn't want him on my team. there is something going on here that is not being told to you, try to find out the truth from the coaches and your son...there has to be something more as they wouldn't just want him off the team for being happy.
2006-10-24 07:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't change schools for football. What kind of messgae does that send to your kid??? That football is that important??
You should arraneg a meeting with the coach along with your son and keep it real positive....no accusations, etc. Just simply ask what you son needs to do in order to be moved up to Varisity. Keep it positive and most coaches will react in a positive manner.
2006-10-24 07:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by tyler b 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The issue here is probably more with the coaches. The coaches are probably trying to like in your sons glory and don't want to let him go because he is making them look good.
2006-10-24 07:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to remember, you see your son one way when he is home, and the teachers and coaches see him another way. You don't really know what kind of behavior he is displaying. I would take your son and meet with the coach, hopefully you will be able to get down to what the issue is. Good luck!
2006-10-24 07:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sets a bad example of dealing with problems. Is he going to quit his job as an adult every time he has issues with his management. He needs to look in the mirror and be honest about the consequences of his attitude.
2006-10-24 07:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who makes the decisions in your house? You, or your son? He should suck it up, go to school, and learn to deal with what life has handed him, it builds character!
P.S. This is too funny, the women are all like Move him, do what little johnny wants, we want him to be happy don't we? LOLOL
The men are like, suck it up kid, slap him around alittle, whats he gonna do when hes an adult LOLOL Just goes to show ya how differently women and men feel about the same issue.
2006-10-24 07:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would slap him around a little more. Tell him to check his attitude at the door, mister!
2006-10-24 07:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by justcallmepetey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would do what ever makes your son happy. Since he spends most of his hours at school anyway.
2006-10-24 07:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋