well as i said im 5'4 i dont think im that bad lookin and i have an alright body i mean i weight 133 and bench press 200 pounds which aint bad for barely starting. i am a preppy dresser with alot of style but i just think it might be the area where im located since theres alot of gangsters or wanksters should i say and the college i go to is stupid and there arent any preppy girls. but the thing about preppy girls is that they are stuck up and well i dont like that. what should i do so i can get a girl?
2006-10-24 07:21:30 · 19 answers · asked by sir lancelot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep trying they will find you or you will find them. Don't give up hope.
2006-10-24 07:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be really honest, a lot of girls don't like "preppy". It looks too much like you are trying to impress. Some girls like gangstas because they exhibit casual gangsta chic. With young girls however, they are mostly attracted to muscles. It is not so much the flash of "brand name" clothing that gets the girl. It is more the guy and whether or not he has a unique style. You need to have an attitude about yourself too. If you come across as confident you will get the girls... Being attracted to the "alpha male" is hard wired in young women...biologicaly it is how the human race continues... After having said that, always be nice, polite and a gentleman. You will keep a good one that way.
Go to a trendy hair salon and have their best stylist choose a style for your face. Bad hair is a real turn off too.
2006-10-24 07:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they may not like you because the may precive you to be an *** hole.
most of the time having self confidence is enough to get you through any kind of situation, if you are confident in yourself women will see this, it is an attractive charecteristic in any person.
but in your case you seem to be fixated on the classification of people. and back grounds, gangsters, preppies... are you serious? you seem to be intrested in a certain type of women, not women in general. people don't become or live a gangster life style by choice, it has to do with geography and resources.
women aren't stupid, they probably persive you are fake. that is why they don't like you. come back down to earth be yourself, leave the preppy (i am too), at home. and if that who you really are, they stick to the high end colleges.
may be you will find a buffy, or a minnie that will suit you
2006-10-24 07:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by diablito69us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there for anyone..if yuo are in college are you still young just have fun with it...you will find a girl that you want to be with but you do have to get yoursefl out there and start dating anyone...maybe dress down alittle bit and not so preppy..there is still away that you can be preppy just not look like one..if you have style then you can make anythign work
but sh'es out there somewhere but u do have to date and get out htere that's all
2006-10-24 07:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first stop using terms like 'preppy' because it sounds very high-school and none of us want to date a guy who reminds us of those days. Second, don't be in the mind-set to 'get a girl'. Love yourself first. People who smile and who are charismatic are much more likely to be viewed in a positive way. Finally, we don't give a dang how much you can bench press so long as you're confident, funny and sexy. And remember, you don't have to be drop-dead-gorgeous to be sexy. It's a state of mind.
2006-10-24 07:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Gotham*City*Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are probably tons of attractive girls around you that you are not even paying attention to because they are not "preppy". and to top that off you have an attitude like you are God's gift to the world. let me bring you back down to reality, you need to get over yourself!
2006-10-24 07:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem rather cocky bragging about how much you can bench. I bet you never talk to a girl you prolly only talk about yourself. Sounds like you are to worried about being short so you play the little tough guy act. My advice drop that and be nice.
2006-10-24 07:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by ayyyyyyyyohhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you're puttin on the "girl face". what i mean by this is you're trying too hard. girls are turned off by fakeness. why do you think it always happens that as soon as you get a girl they all want you, but when you're single you get nothing?
and hey, if you gotta wait a little longer it just means that when you do find a great girl she'll be amazing.
2006-10-24 07:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by zakabay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. You don't need to be preppy. Preppy is stuck up. Just be confident.
2006-10-24 07:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually You're Unattractive, Dumb, Gullible, and Irresponsible.
Theirs a Reason why they're Stuck Up and Mean, They don't care about guys like you.
2006-10-24 07:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop labeling people. You need to stop searching and just enjoy your college years. There is alot of time to find Mrs Right.
2006-10-24 07:26:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋