I went on a date with a really nice guy on friday night, he was a real gentleman. Throughout the date we were talking about things we both enjoy doing, and laughing at the stupid things we do with our friends. During our date we found out we both had lots of things in common, like the trucks that we both own and how we both enjoy working on them. After our date, he took me home and Ithanked him for having such a great time. We hugged and as he was leaving he told me he would talk to me later. It's now tuesday, and he still has not called me. Does that mean he didnt have a great time like me, and he is not going to call me for another date?
2006-10-24 06:54:04 · 16 answers · asked by lilli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should give him a call. you'll never know what he is thinking unless you call. no point on waiting on him.
2006-10-24 07:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by samlha83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are so complicated. Don't stress about it. I'm sure he had a great time like you did, but if he doesn't decide to call you, then forget him. There are plenty of other guys ten times better then him. Trust me. If he doesn't call you by the end of this week, then I would just forget about him, and continue to look for another great guy. After all, it's his loss not yours.
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2006-10-24 06:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by *Simply Gorgeous!* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ladies here are giving this guy more credit than he deserves about calling you.
If this guy is shy he is going to have a hard time just picking up the phone let alone dialing it! Give him a chance to get the nerve to call you again. Not all guys are as cold as people make them seem.
My wife didn't give me a chance to "get away" she invited me over for a football game the next day....
2006-10-24 07:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this when i use to date, i will make her wait at least three days before calling her. That way I wouldn't look to needy or desperate. Give him a week he will call you. Or you can call him and see what happens.
My wife call me the next day, that really took pressure from me on waiting for my three days to be up.
2006-10-24 06:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by lizarddog01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest...move on and continue to date. He's had plenty of time to ask himself if he wants a relationship to develop. He's just not that into you and he's had plenty of time to think about it. It does not mean he didn't like you or that he did't have a great time.
Guys arn't complicated...when they know what they want they go after it...shy or not. He didn't lose your phone number...trust me even if he did there are ways of finding someone if you lose their number. He said he would call you...let him make the call.
2006-10-24 07:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by dave_0522 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is kind of a long time for him to not be calling, if he's planning to ask for another date. I would give him til next Fri., and then move on to the next one.
P.S. IMO, calling him would be silly - he's simply not that interested, otherwise he WOULD call. (I've never seen a guy not call a girl he's genuinely interested in.)
2006-10-24 06:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the weekend, give him some time. Call him to see if he wants to get together again.
2006-10-24 07:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you don't try to call him
just ask him if he is ok or not coz may be something wrong went with him
and from that call you will know he sounds intersted or not
good luck
2006-10-24 06:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Soulmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
later in a guy's world is maybe a few day's i'm sure
is thinking about you just like you,give it time.
goodluck
isabelle
2006-10-24 06:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, maybe he just lost your number accidentally.
Stuff like this happens.
It sounds like he had a good time.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 07:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ben R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋