what do i do? ok heres the story.... my dad is an angry man and he cant control his temper and he screams and hits me all the time. i dont have any contact with my mom and when she calls he wont let me talk to her at all and he wont let me go see her. i cant even have a caring boyfriend..i have had a caring boyfriend and he made us break up and almost beat the crap out of me. what can i do to make this stop? HELP...
2006-10-24 06:51:10 · 9 answers · asked by ~kAyLeE~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Life isn't easy for many people but they don't have thr right to hurt you or abuse you .Stand up and let ppl know what is going on.For an example when you go to school talk to a teacher of the situation that you have.They will help you for sure.He has no right to control your life just because his life didn't went as he wish that it have should been.Ppl that are angry have lost so much and they dont know how to solver problems so they find other ways like what u r going through.PPL let someone that you are close know otherwise it will continue for the rest of your life.Comunication is the key to all if you believe in urself...You can write to me if you like mabye we can solve it together but remember you r the one that has to take action and become a stronger person....PPL R OUT THERE THAT CARES!!~!
2006-10-24 07:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by aldatuneed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't normal for you to be treated in this way. The best thing you could do is talk to someone who has a certain a mount of authority; a teacher, a doctor, the police or social services should be able to do all they can to help you. You deserve a loving home with people that hug you not hit you.
Good luck & best wishes for the future.....x
2006-10-24 14:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't control how your dad is to you. sometimes it never changes. I haven't talked to or seen my dad in over 25 years. he beat me when i was little. you don't say what your age is. about the only thing i can offer is go to social services if your a minor. the courts might let you move to your mothers. good luck
2006-10-24 14:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by pnybt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow huny..i cant even believe he allows you to use the internet. he definitely seems closed minded.. so i would say talking to him is out of the question. but you NEED to confide in someone.. whether it be the school nurse or whatever.. you cant keep living like that..in fear.. if you're really being abused you need to tell child protective services..i know you may be scared.. but they'll make sure you're never put in that predicament agaim mami.. well ill keep you in my prayers.. and you have to stay strong**
2006-10-24 13:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help in some way tell your school or police if you dont this will affect you the rest of your life.
2006-10-24 13:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey- you need out of there.
Is there anyone you can confide in? If you are in school go to your guidance counselor- they are trained in this area.
Good luck to you- I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-10-24 13:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police. talk to teacher, counselor, principal, in your school. go to a pay phone and call your mother collect.
2006-10-24 13:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police! If you are a minor (and it sounds like you are), this is child abuse.
2006-10-24 13:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the Police and tell them what's happening.
tell them you want to live with your mom.
2006-10-24 13:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋