I've been with my girlfriend for only about 2 months, but we were "seeing" each other for about 6 months before we made things official. During the time when we weren't official, she would ask me from time to time questions regarding marriage and hypothetical questions about engagements, proposals, marriage, etc. And from time to time she asks me questions now about these kinds of things, and I enjoy sharing about my thoughts and asking about hers. Do girls ask questions about marriage related issues with anyone (guys) they don't think they can marry or do you think she's asking these questions because deep down there is something there, whether she realizes it or not.
2006-10-24 06:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should clarify, she never has said anything like "what if we were to get married" or anything like that. everything is left very general. I feel like she is the one, but I never say anything that will get both our hopes up, both to guard her and myself.
2006-10-24 07:00:54 · update #1
she needs to hit you over the head with a darn brick
she is interested in getting married and wants your opinion or to see where you stand DUH!
2006-10-24 06:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to know how you feel on the subjects.. Engagements, proposals , marriages are very serious things.
The most you can know about the other persons feelings on them, the better it will be. Sounds like she cares what you think or she wouldn't be curious about it.
2006-10-24 13:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down there is something more.
I never bring up marriage or anything related unless he brings it up first.
2006-10-24 13:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might ask just for fun. just to test you how do you think of this and that. if they desperate they will show and you will know. some of them fantasies about theit marriage and children gal do that all the time just relax and enjoy the show.
2006-10-24 13:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, There is something to the questions. She is try to gauge if you will ever marry her. If there is no hope she will probably move on.
2006-10-24 13:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's simply trying to figure out where you're at and determine if she can see herself being with you and marrying you.
2006-10-24 13:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, of COURSE...she'd talk to HER friends if she just wanted data. She's sizing you up and seeing if you might be compatible.
Don't get all wussied out though- she's still deciding.
Stay the YOU she hooked up with.
2006-10-24 13:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... this is a tough one... well i dont know who you are talking about so that makes things difficult. but i think that maybe she likes you. a lot. see, i dont talk to my friends about that stuff, but i talked to my boyfriend of 9 months about that stuff with. if you followed that. so i think that its good thing.
2006-10-24 13:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by emo girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to get to know you and your thoughts by asking questions.
2006-10-24 13:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something definitely there.
2006-10-24 13:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋