Ok, my boyfriend wants to do it from the back. i know i know, why are you askin us this?...well im scared. i dont know if i should or not. will he think diff of me or will it be fine? are their any risks? does it HURT? just need advice
2006-10-24 06:43:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it will hurt! You'll **** donut rings for awhile too. Some woman also find that when things settle down it feels great. If you are nervous, you will hate bum love.
If you go for it, make sure you have plenty of lube and that he stimulates your clit at the same time. This will ease the initial pain of the stretch. If he uses his fingers first to prepare you and is gentle, there probably wont be much pain at all.
Im afraid it all depends on how good your partner is! Remember, don't ever do anything you don't want to do just to please a man. If he won't take a strap on up his ****, why should you take him up yours? There has to be trust and he has to know how to please you.
Good luck and don't be so scared of the idea of anal. If he does you right, you'll probably find you quite enjoyed it.
2006-10-24 06:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Angel Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent used to it it may hurt a bit. Just make sure he doesnt go too deep or too fast. The more you do it the less it will hurt. If it's anal he wants just make sure you use lots of lube and go really slow at first cause it does hurt when you first do it.
2006-10-24 06:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts at first.Try a finger,and work your way up. I love a good a*s f*ck about once a week.And if you're like me,you wont even need any extra lube,just what your own body produces.
2006-10-24 07:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by No Name Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal intercourse could be painful. If he has by no potential performed it formerly... it must be greater so. i would not propose attempting with somebody you do no longer one hundred% have confidence the 1st time via fact then you definately would be greater hectic which will make it harm much greater. My suggestion is discover fairly some astroglide, go truly slow(he desires to be truly considerate of you to attend and see sufficient the 1st time for it to no longer harm), and 0.33 no count if it is in basic terms too uncomfortable or you won't be able to relax then talk up!!! do no longer think of which you would be able to desire to have anal intercourse in case you do no longer decide for to. it is your decision and it may be relaxing. in case you do not have orgasms for the period of prevalent intercourse, opportunities are high you will no longer have one in this the two.
2016-10-02 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of lube and start with you lying on your back, knees pulled back and him slipping it in very slowly from the FRONT. That's my advice for you. If you start doing it with him behind you he might get the angle all wrong and hurt you.
2006-10-24 07:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had it and it hurt so bad but it may have been cuz we didnt use lube but cuz it hurt so much im scared to do it again even with lube. I had to pull away i was in pain
2006-10-24 07:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it slowy with lube. stop if you dont like it and warm up 1st.
my ex loved it although she felt the same way about it as you.
as worried as you were about regular sex, you know what its like now, and enjoy that, and now you get to enjoy (try) somthing else that may be as good, u never know
have fun
2006-10-24 06:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by matthew.armstrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart and do what you think is right and if your boyfriend can't understand that then he really doesn't love you as much as he says.
2006-10-24 06:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it hurt? yes...but....i actually think i have a better orgasm myself when someone's back there!! try it!
2006-10-24 06:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by bev_lev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you'll do it if he goes first!
2006-10-24 06:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋