We dated for 20 monthes and decided a brk would be gd 4 both of us.I moved out of state and we tlkd the first wk.All mushy stuff then he said out of no where all he misses is the sex.We have not tlkd since. 3 wks now.When we were 2gether I asked him if it is only sex and he always said if it were just sex he could get it anywhere with whomevr.He even talked to my mom about marriage right b4 I moved.I want to call him 4 his Bday 2morrow but do not know if I should. P.S. He is scorp and I am Cap.What should I do?
2006-10-24 06:22:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes Men cant communicate as good and wellversed as women.They mean love,and express it thru physical intimacy.What he says is if it were only sex then would get it any where,isnt it?Also,he wants marriage,therefore the relationship is not merely based on sex,and there isnt any need to think he is using u.
2006-10-24 06:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him just to wish him a happy B-day! If you feel he is only in for the sex, then why risk being hurt. If he said this to you before and then he changes his answer only after you had sex, then you know he is a liar. Have some pride and stand up for your respect in this relationship, if he cannot respect you enough to keep comments that might hurt your feelings to himself, then he must be trying to see how naive you are. Surely your not naive and love yourself enough to know when enough is enough. Keep this person as a friend if he someone you care about but leave the intimacy for someone who feels the same way about you as you do them.
2006-10-24 06:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if all he wants is sex, then it is not a good type of relationship. I'd get away,and not look back. If you are really looking for someone to like and care about you for good reasons, namely YOU, then you need a guy who looks at the inside,not just the outside. I mean, look, a guy needs to like you for more than sex itself. Otherwise, he's only using you. On another note, if you would like a guy friend to talk to, my name is Kevin, and I can be reached at 918 335 2955.
2006-10-24 06:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss the sex then call him so the two of you can have sex. If you dont want to be in a relationship based only on sex, then dont call him. Not sure what month you were born has to do with anything.
2006-10-24 06:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him for his birthday there is no harm in that, but don't get into anything with him, relax and let him take the reigns rightnow, cause if the comment was made he is either scared of commitment or its true, let him figure it out, don't stress over it and he will come back...like the old saying goes, set it free if it comes back then it was always yours, if it doesn't come back it was never yours to begin with
2006-10-24 06:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by chele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. It's been 3 weeks since you talked-- make it 3 months, then 3 years. Find someone who loves your heart, mind and soul. He doesn't. This is way over.
2006-10-24 06:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
negative dont put yourself in the position to be used what are u his cocky cooler sorry to be blunt listen in life your significant other should love u for who u are not for sex only and ask yourself the question is he worth it and who do u value more yourself or him? if u are up to it call him and say hi but keep away from the sex topic i am serious.
2006-10-24 06:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by aretha f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recognize that this relationship is going nowhere. If you feel like having sex with him, knowing that it is not going to lead to anything, then have sex. Otherwise don't.
2006-10-24 06:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not call him because if he misses just that then he doesnt miss you so no you shouldnt , just do you and stay single, do what you think is best, and dont let him use u
2006-10-24 06:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he also miss you speaking proper English as well? Don't call him
2006-10-24 06:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋