it really bothers me when my BF looks at porn. Why do you think this is silly? I try to rationalize it that its not real, but its hard to feel like you have to compete with 1 dimensional characters that wont look less then perfect because of editing procedures. And if my BF thought I was hot enough, why would he need to look at other women?
2006-10-24 06:21:31 · 12 answers · asked by arabangel2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You would not understand. Its a guy thing....
2006-10-24 06:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by gulf9191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not silly that it bothers you because he looks at porn. It would appear that he would prefer a 3 dimensional woman to 1 dimensional women. If anyone is silly then he would be! When it comes right down to it while he may enjoy watching them however they really can't do much of any thing else but be on the screen. YOU on the other hand are right there. Perhaps you should remind him that he should enjoy you while he still has you!
2006-10-24 06:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is TALK about it with your boyfriend. Communication is the key to find out what it does for him sexually. Most guys ,like myself,enjoy the visual stimulation. In many cases,we are also hoping you find it stimulating too,and can share in the fantasy. Every guy wants the porn star in the bedroom,and it's a great way to learn new techniques,and add some spice. If you really have trust in your relationship,don't be afraid to communicate your feelings,and find out his. Just remember this....would you rather interact with him on his fantasy's, or have him find his fantasy somewhere else? Couples who share and expeirence there sexual nuainces together,are generally happy and loving partners where "communication" and "trust" has layed a strong foundation that can be shared together. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-24 07:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by attaboy1359 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE PORN! I have to answer this with an open mind and you're not going to like it....the fact that he looks at it infront of you is rude.and it is real honey! they really are doin the nasty and your man really is pumpin his gas to it. and it is absolutely normal for men to look at it unfortunately,it is in there blood. but hey atleast he's not with a 3 dimentional right?
2006-10-24 06:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't compete. Offer him head. If he says "no I want to look at porn." Then you got a problem.
2006-10-24 06:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are different from woman. Men prefer visual stimulation for arousal. Woman like touch and romance. As long as he comes home to you.let him look.
2006-10-24 06:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hunny,
I personally dont see anything wrong with porn, BUT as long as its what i call normal porn (no kids "anyone under 21" no animals of anykind and no harmfully stuff) I often watch porn with my BF we then have fantastic sex but we also dont have to watch porn to have fantastic sex. if you don like it then tell him you dot want to watch it with him but i think its unfair for you to tell him he can watch it.
Good Luck Hunny x x x x x
2006-10-24 06:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dharma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.NetDogSoft.com
2006-10-24 15:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with you not looking hot enough or how he feels about you
2006-10-24 06:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it arouses him...Check it out with him and get aroused with him and then have some hot sex....
2006-10-24 06:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋