Have any of you been in a FWB type relationship, I am single and work way too much to even find a girl, let alone start a relationship, we do have needs though but I'm not the bar or club hopping type. My question I guess is have any of you been in a FWB type relationship, how exactly did it work, would you do it again, what are the up's and down's of having such a relationship?
2006-10-24 06:20:18 · 19 answers · asked by John H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It works like any other relationship sometimes great sometimes crash and burn. I have found that they work best if you have known the other person for a very long time and you really do care about each other. Also the hardest part is when one of you find a bf or gf. It still feels a little like being dumped even if you knew what the relationship was from the beginning. It works simply by answering each others booty calls no matter what.
2006-10-24 06:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd never get into a FWB relationship because I'm a romantic and I don't have sex with someone unless I'm in love with them and trust them. In a FWB relationship, the two people are just using each other for sex.
I've seen FWB relationships blow up and then you're got no friend and you've got no benefits either. In too many cases, one or the other person starts getting too attached and then the other person dumps them.
If you don't have time for a real relationship, go hire a hooker or just pleasure yourself. Don't "use" a woman.
And, OK, for those of you who answered and don't know what FWB means, it's short for "Friends With Benefits." I say friends don't "use" friends that way.
2006-10-24 06:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in a FWB with my ex bf and it was good cause we had feelings for each other but we knew that we wasnt going to get back together.
When having a FWB you might set some rules, but when you actually have the relationship with the person, those rules will go down the drain cause you will develop feelings for the person. You have to be mentally prepared for anything to happen. And yea i would do it again but with someone who i know.
2006-10-24 06:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried a FWB relationship but it wasnt worth my time. i refuse to be in another FWB relationship because eventually feelings will develop between each other and one of you will get hurt. So i suggest not not ever be in a FWB. it is not worth it...it makes you feel used after it is all over between the two of you.
2006-10-24 06:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i've been in many FWB relationships and if you two don't get emotionally attached and screw up the relationship, it goes well. I've ruined many good relationships because we started to develop feelings, but things like that never quite work out.
2006-10-24 06:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by ggh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, what is an FWB relationship? I'm lost...boy do I feel dumb.
Oh...Friends with Benefits...that depends if your friend is in it for the same reason, most of the time one person becomes attached and the you lose a friend. I wouldn't suggest it.
2006-10-24 06:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
john !! what is fwb?? can u give ur question clearly pal.. thanku
though till now i have never been into a relationship
2006-10-24 06:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, judging by potential of ways she's all knotted up in her relationships (2 boyfriends on the comparable time) she might say specific and merely use you to cheer up after which sell off you. i might say that's a touch a grey section. yet once you quite think of she's that pleasing and you do no longer ideas what happens later then yep you're precise 2 possibly 3 weeks and your golden. the different one will in all likelihood get jealous, yet once you adult adult males do no longer communicate she'll recover from you and circulate on and you will by no potential have that possibility returned... which might suck if she actual is that quite :L You gotta decide which woman you like greater. through fact in case you decide on for one your gonna omit out on the different. the dancing element: i in my opinion think of that would desire to be rather stunning xP yet some females could be like.. wtf?? i think it relies upon on the way you pull it off - like while you're an extremely humorous no longer awkward guy you're golden with that. yet once you come of cheesy it quite is sport over. desire i might desire to help :P
2016-12-28 03:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having needs is not a reason to seek someone, so deal with that first. Friends with benefits isn't going to solve your issues.
2006-10-24 06:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK maybe I'm just not with it, but what's FWB?
2006-10-24 06:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by peachy78 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋