I guess I don't understand men. They seem to get turned on by simple visual things. I get turned on by him usually. Does this mean he's a cheater? He seems like a faithful type but he gets turned on at the drop of a dime...
2006-10-24 06:16:56 · 29 answers · asked by KK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are visually oriented. A woman's body is specifically designed to attract our attention. That's what the word "attractive" means. Any physically and emotionally healthy adult male will find a beautiful, naked woman attractive. Period. Once a woman's body has attracted our attention, it is designed to arouse our desire for it. Period. Guess what? It works. Particularly if there is a warm, affectionate, loving body right next to ours to add pheromes to the mix.
It has nothing to do with faithfulness, or unfaithfulness. It's a natural, physiological reaction to an object we are designed to react to. It's an instictive reaction that is hard-coded into each of us.
Faithfulness or unfaithfulness is a matter of higher-order motivation. It is not instictive. As men mature, they gain higher values. Trustworthiness, compassion, stability... these are values that are learned in men. Either we learn them, value them and commit to them, or we don't.
You can't judge a man's potential for faithfulness by whether or not he notices other women, or is aroused by their sexuality. We all will (or pretend that we don't if you punish us for it). We all have a body that will react as designed when presented with the proper stimulus. Whether we ACT on that impulse, or pursue higher goals, depends on our ultimate values.
2006-10-24 06:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your own advice: "just relax and enjoy the temporary nudity as part of the experience." You can't go by what you see in the movies. There are a lot of shows that don't have nudity. Some of them are actually very good -- almost any of the Cirque shows, Blue Man Group, Penn and Teller. But it's a far cry from a stage show with topless women (Jubilee, Follies Bergere, etc. Zumanity is the only Cirque show in this category.) to an all-out strip club. It's even a farther cry to "promiscuous women." The women who appear in the legitimate shows are not at all promiscuous. There may be some visitors who are looking for a good time, but as the Eagles said, they "can't take you any way you don't already know how to go." In other words, relax and have a great time.
2016-03-18 23:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures...you should be happy he gets turned on because if he didn't, well, then he might be gay...LOL. In all seriousness though, this is perfectly normal for males and is no way an indicator of a man's ability to be monogamous in a relationship.
2006-10-24 06:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by MichiganFan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a boy, they are more visual then girls, usually. Heck what am I saying, he's a boy, they can get turned on if the wind blows the right way! I wouldn't consider this abnormal behavoir, it certainly doesn't prove he'll be unfaithful.
2006-10-24 06:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. I'd be worried if he didn't get turned on. Men are visually stimulated - their brains are hard-wired that way. Just enjoy it.
2006-10-24 06:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being aroused by the movies, doesn't mean he's a cheater.
My husband's grandpa says "Grandma don't care where I get my appetite, as long as I come home for dinner."
2006-10-24 06:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just is more obvious about getting turned on. All of the guys I know are the same they just don't let anyone know they are excited by say tv commercials or sex scenes. It is good that he is so sensitive better than if he has no interest.
2006-10-24 06:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by jooje@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a normal guy with a high libido and as long as he doesn't go cheating on you that is normal.
Just enjoy the ride.
Just follow this piece of advice.
As long as he is still looking he Hasn't;t found something.
2006-10-24 06:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About that Bi question question you answered earlier....? Hope you did not mean him and nude males right? (just messing with ya ;>)
It happens to me too (turned on by nude FEMALEs, not the nude men) cos' we may have visualized the nude FEMALES in 3D... ;>
It is also actually proven that many men are 'Visual' creatures - What we see registers in our brains more than others (now you know why he ignored you when you whispered sweet nothings to him during Superbowl?)
That said, make sure he does not have a pic of a guy in red speedos in his wallet...
2006-10-24 06:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Mooner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it does not mean he is a cheater! Men are very visually stimulated, especially young men (like younger than 40 or so). Please don't make a big deal out of this, he can't help it!
2006-10-24 06:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋