2006-10-24 06:14:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'd say 100. Depends on you, the person, the wedding itself- is it a big deal or not?
2006-10-24 06:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Contrary to some beliefs, there is no monetary rule for a wedding gift. (It is NOT the amount of money spent on the reception divided by the number of guests, or a set price per person in your party, nor is it based on the cost of your dinner.)
I suggest getting them something from their registry if they have one; they registered for a reason, it is stuff they want and/or need.
If it is your family you may wish to give something more heartfelt and memorable.
A gift should be a token of affection and good-will - freely given; a gift is NOT intended to pay for the wedding. Consider your budget and spend accordingly. It doesn't have to be large or expensive. By sending a gift you acknowledge the joyous occasion.
2006-10-24 13:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually I would give $200 per couple. You basically are trying to cover the cost of the dinner PLUS a bit extra if possible. There is no limit as to how much you should or shouldn't give as a gift. It is a personal choice and you can only give what you can afford. Try not to insult the couple by giving only $20 if you are giving cash. If you can not afford to give cash or you don't feel like it is "covering" yours and your guest's portions, then maybe purchase a few small items off of the couple's registry.
2006-10-24 13:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Laura t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What ever is most comfortable for you to afford. Gifts should come from the heart not the pocketboot. I gave my nephew 250.00 (and I thought that was a small amount), but would have much rather been able to go in person to his wedding. Don't worry about the amount - as long as it's heartfelt the amount doesn't matter. Write a nice note to go with it.
2006-10-24 13:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Scotsman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a college student who eats ramen noodles by day, and drinks long island's by night. I try to give at least $100 for inviting me to the wedding. $200 if I bring a guest.
I usually don't buy gifts from the various registries they participate in, I figure Newlyweds can always use the money, heck I sure can.
2006-10-24 13:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by imacdaddy01 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
$200
2006-10-24 13:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are close to the bride and groom, $125 or more. If they are a distant relative, $50. If you work with them, $50. And anyone who tells you to "spend what you can afford" is full of it. If it were your wedding, you would want to get at least $50 - if not more. Don't be cheap.
2006-10-24 13:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it really depends on your budget. My wife and I got gifts between $50-$100 each for our wedding last year.
2006-10-24 13:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter how much as long as the other person knows you care about them. 300 dollars or more if they are close to you or related. More than 1000 dollars if its your sibling or children.
I would say 100 dollars for a normal person.
2006-10-24 13:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
100.00 is OK if you are a friend, sibling. It's all relevant as to how much you can afford and the closeness you have with the couple. It's always cheaper to skip the wedding and catch the divorce.
2006-10-24 13:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋