I just got my first job and my boyfriend always ask for money or something. I don't mine him asking because I Love him and I would give him anything. I just wanted to know if that's a problem.
2006-10-24 06:12:59 · 7 answers · asked by lilhaze1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are creating a big problem for yourself. Once he knows that you will give him anything, he will keep asking. You are creating a monster here and when you can not afford to give it to him, he will then turn to someone else and you will then have to kiss your relationship goodbye. Don't encourage something you will not be able to control later. He should be ashamed of himself and you should be embarrassed to have a boyfriend who won't go work for his own money, but want yours.
2006-10-24 07:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember all you give him is a GIFT!!! No intentions of wanting it back. If u are loaning him money, set up a contract with term and a time period in which it sould be paid off. If you end up breakin up and u want to get ur money back, only what u have a contract for will be all u'll get back. All the other money is a GIFT. There is always a fine line with money. be smart and do what needs to be done.
2006-10-24 06:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how it starts. Innocently enough, but sooner or later you'll end up paying this losers bills, buying his beer, putting minutes on his cell phone, it goes on and on. If he has any pride or self esteem he would'nt accept money from you. Don't be taken in by this, girl! Get yourself a man who wants to give you things.
2006-10-24 06:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lynda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend needs to find a job and earn his own money. it can become a problem and you need to quit giving him money
2006-10-24 06:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will be a problem if you don't put a stop to it. He will think it is okay to do so and then he will end up being lazy and unemployed.
2006-10-24 06:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the guy is supposed to provide not muoch off his girl
2006-10-24 06:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by cartmen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A LOSER! DUMP HIM, TELL HIM TO GET A JOB AND BUY YOU STUFF!! :)
2006-10-24 06:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋