I know it's pretty obvious everyone has these problems...your best friend goes for your guy. The problem is that he's like the first real bf ive had since breaking up with my best friend's cousin a year ago which was difficult to get over anyway. She's had a bf for about two and a half years...but now that im with my guy she wants make comments about how she should be with him and not me. Considering my self-esteem isn't the highest i don't get why she wants me to feel even worse then i do about myself! I really need some advice for this one...because when choosing over friendship and then over dating i stick with the first. But he was my best friend and now that we're together when we see each other we're closer then she and I. Plz give me advice!!!
2006-10-24 06:04:01 · 19 answers · asked by Snap Skittles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eeesh, tough luck babe...
Can I assume that your BF's a looker? And that you just got together with him?
If thats the case, make her realise you mean business i.e. make sure she knows you mean to be together with him throught hell and high water (you do feel that much for him... right?)
Or you could just collar him... Branding may be a bit too old fashioned (not to mention the damage to his hide...)
Oh well, if she persists... Brand her on the forehead - "BF STEALER" or on her tush and be done with her.
p.s. some girls take pride in their tushes, so forehead may be a better idea...
2006-10-24 06:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Mooner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he know? If so, does he have a problem with it? If not let him go....if he does have a problem, tell him to tell her he's not interested in her....You need to tell your so called bestfriend about herself and how you feel...if she doesn't do anything to fix that problem then she doesn't care and you need to lose her as a friend...otherwise if your boyfriend likes the idea of her likeing him then he's obviously no good for you eitha....since there both your best friend i can't really tell you who to choose, but what could help is if you talk to them both at the same time and let them know how you feel and come to some type of conclusion....
2006-10-24 13:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this so called best friend of yours that he is your man and she needs to stick with her own man although you don't have the best self esteem there is no need for her to be mean and tell you that she is better off with your boyfriend well Snap tell her to back off after all your boyfriend is dating you for a reason and he likes you not her and she needs to find someone else if she is not satisfied with her current guy
2006-10-24 13:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is a very good friend let alone your best friend. It sounds like she would rather you be unhappy and dependent upon her. Best friends help you not hurt you. You say your boy friend is your best friend so why would you choose her over him?
2006-10-24 13:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to back of, make a threat. Then go to your man, say hey, this is whats going on. Stay away from her.
2006-10-24 13:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is not your friend if she is trying to get with your man,because a true friend would not do that.
2006-10-24 13:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Davina R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the b*tch...
I had a supposed good friend that I later found out was telling everyone how easily she could take my boyfriend from me...turns out he thought she was ugly and he didn't even know why I thought she was a friend...
show's what hyped up ego's these slags have...lol...
2006-10-24 13:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by avava9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly i am very protective of my bf, and if that were to happen with my best friend, i would knock her the fu%& out!
Seriously i would probably warn her first but if i ever caught her doing anything to try to sabatage my relationship....oh it would be ON like Donkey Kong!:)
lol.....good luck!
2006-10-24 13:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by nikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her ***...i mean thats the only way she goin to stop b/c if you say something she only goin to do it behind your back...so why not fix the problem
2006-10-24 13:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Meyaboo636 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she's not your best friend. so you don't have to figure anything out. a friend wouldn't go after your boyfriend.
2006-10-24 13:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Real Voice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋