i have this friend and is has a kid, and we went out dancing last weekend. we cant stop talking went we see one anyother.
but she says she loves her ex and i care for her and she knows it
but how can i get her to be with me??
2006-10-24 05:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by ace_71385 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i cant make her love me and just want her to know that i will be there for her
2006-10-24 05:51:15 · update #1
just be there for her. be her friend...she'll find out who she wants. the person thats always there for her or her ex.
2006-10-24 05:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by kirstin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just take it easy and not rush into anything. She has a child and she is still in love with her ex? Approach with care. You don't want to get hurt.
2006-10-24 05:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that. you are only toturing yourself. she said she was in love with her ex still. WALK AWAY! go find yourself a wonderful woman than can devote her time to you only. do you go to a market and buy half of an orange? or even a dab of toothpaste? why would you settle for someone who is only willing to give you partial attention?
2006-10-24 05:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, but don't be a friend. Be forward with her. "I want to be with you, but I know your in a tough place right now and you need a friend. I will be that until you are ready"
2006-10-24 05:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. I would just be a friend for awhile and see what happens.
2006-10-24 05:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient if you are meant to be it will happen. Dont push her that may just push her away from you. Good Luck!!
2006-10-24 05:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force people to love you. Let her come to you if she wants.
2006-10-24 05:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her time, take it real slow n with time she is gonna make her mind.... all you need to do is be yourself. Don't act desperate!!!
2006-10-24 05:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by cooldee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Do you want to be that guy? The in-between she doesn't want, but settled for.
2006-10-24 05:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to spell would be a start
2006-10-24 05:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋