I have been dating this girl for many months and after a month or so I started feeling really exhausted after hanging out with her. We connect fine and I like her a lot, and its not like she exhausts me, i dont think, but I have a lot of trouble talking and connecting with other people and I feel really out of it for a few days every time we hang out. I'm fine when I'm with her though, but the next days I'm real out of it. I don't want to break up with her for a reason I don't understand and cant control. Has anyone else experienced this and any ideas what is going on??
2006-10-24 05:43:25 · 11 answers · asked by themn731 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are a major introvert and having relationships with some people will leave you feeling exhausted. Maybe you should talk to your doctor or better yet, a counselor who can help. Good luck to you.
2006-10-24 05:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in love! enjoy it. That could be one answer another is maybe your not getting enough ZZZzzs. Enfactuation is most likely the cuase for you. Dont' break up with her just try hanging out 3 times a week instead of 5.
2006-10-24 12:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you feeling exhausted? Is it because you are working too hard at being the person that you think she wants?
2006-10-24 12:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just drain the energy from the ones around them. She sounds like one of those people. Try wearing onyx.
2006-10-24 12:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does intimacy occur? This might be why u r exhausted.
If not, then try joining a gym to increase your overall stamina.
It will also allow more oxygen to flow to ur brain for clear
thinking...
2006-10-24 13:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by allwmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax you are spending a lot of energy on nothing it might not even be her just try to relax and take it easy you will get over it soon.
2006-10-24 12:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like if you're tired of her even though u still like her.......u jus don't want to admit it.....
sometimes in relationship ppl on the whole change and thus u start to feel out of it , like why are u here, do i want to be in this relationship etc......
2006-10-24 12:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your self is it worth it if you are always tired for days after seeing her
2006-10-24 12:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't brake up with her. You should be patient. Wait a bit. If you know her better you will change your mind and you will enjoy her attention.
2006-10-24 12:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ropi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a succubus...she's taking your soul and keeping it for herself. HAHAHA (evil laugh)!!! No really...give yourself some space from her....alot of space in your case.
2006-10-24 12:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Yondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋