I've benn knowing my ex for 3 1/2 years now. and he's always like i wanna marry you; you are world my everything, He would do anything for me etc. He has a attitude problem, he get jealious, but he is still there for me and he takes care of things fo me. But i can't fully move on because i still have feelings for him. But his ways push me away. And everytime i hook up with someone elese(dating wise) he always wanna come back into the picture fully as my man. And he deal with other females and i'm like as long as he is happy i'm fine with that.But he wont let me go. what do you think the problem is?Why is he acting that way?Do he really wanna be with me or is it a control thing with him
2006-10-24 05:42:00 · 19 answers · asked by Monie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh,he tells everybody i'm his girlfriend and his mom thinks were getting married,thats what he tells her. And i still spend time with her and his other family members.Am i crazy or what for still being friends with his family members?
2006-10-24 05:50:01 · update #1
I talked to him over and over agian. he won't let up, he always says i am the best thing that ever happend to him.
2006-10-24 05:57:51 · update #2
Isabelle you misunderstood, He does stuff for me because he want to, and i do stuff for him to. and yes i do love him, i'm not using him in any way.
2006-10-24 06:02:15 · update #3
i think ur ex is having a major problem.. he juz can't get over u! I don't think its love, and like u said, he juz wanna be in control of ur life.. But then again, it's best u sit down n have a real talk with him... Ask him y is he doing this to u.. If he wants u back, then he shouldn't act this way since it's juz putting u off.. Maybe he don't realise it now, but u should highlight to him. Most importantly, it's wat u want.. If u don't wanna be with him, then stop the feelings u r having now.. Stop him from helping u with stuff.. N u muz wipe off watever feelings u r having for him... U still haf feelings for him and in a way or the other, u muz have shown that fact to him.. tat's y he feel like its OK for him to behave this way towards u... if u wanna be with him, then talk to him abt how u feel abt his character n tell him to ease it down a lil n work sth out...
2006-10-24 05:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like whether or not "he really wants to marry you" is NOT the issue. The issue is: are you two really compatible. A long term relationship is based on love, trust and compromise. While you may have some of these characteristics, the man that you are describing does not. It's okay to love him but you must move on and decide whether you want to be happy or not. He is your "Ex" for a reason.
On a side note... Take some time to find out just what it is you are looking for yourself. Because, the more clear you are on what it is that you want, the easier it is to make the right decisions concerning situations like these.
2006-10-24 05:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by jaymarhonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is his problem. You are ready to move on. He wants his cake and eat it too, he can't have it both ways. He is seeing other women but keeps coming back to you everytime you date someone else. Stand up to this guy and tell him it is over. Don't let him do things for you anymore, tell him you don't need his help, or take care f you anymore, you have found someone else who is willing to take care of you and not cheat, or control you. No one has the right to control someone elses life or feelings. Tell him to get over himself and move on. you are done with him!!! Unless of course you really want him back, and if this is the case then you have some serious thinking to do.
2006-10-24 05:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~*[Jεn]*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 01:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by kernan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just finds it hard to let you go,I don't thing he is that serious about you.I think you should talk to him once and for all that there is no chance between you guys and tell him that he should go his own way and not to interfere with your life
2006-10-24 05:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Specky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the problem......
c'mon can you see his in love with you.
and you still want him in you're life 'cause you ask him
to do things for you still and he does
really,if you don't have the same feelings towards him
let him go and move on,he waiting for you but see you
moving on so he try to do the same.you can't have it both
way
don't let him hanging to long is not going to trust you.
take care
isabelle
2006-10-24 05:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Ex isn't the problem. You are. Either move on or don't, but quit fooling around with him and others. Make up your mind!
2006-10-24 05:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even still in contact? And what business is it of his to know who you are dating. He's a control freak that's using you to boost his ego.
2006-10-24 05:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being manipulated and you are the one allowing it you need to force him out of your life and not accept anything from him. No one should use you nor control you.
2006-10-24 05:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting your ex control you. Get away from him and stay away from him. He is bad for you.
2006-10-24 05:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋