honestly i am getting kind of tired of and frustrated with my bf. he's going to another college in another state. there are @ least 2 guys who may like me but i'm not sure. is trying to figure out if they like me for sure before i break up with him cheating?
2006-10-24 05:40:11 · 32 answers · asked by anabelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should break up with someone because you're not in love with them anymore...not because there might be a better offer somewhere else...
2006-10-24 05:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up then. If you gotta wait till someone shows strong interest in you then that means you have a problem. Maybe your scared, insecure, etc. Thats not right to "wait for something better to come along". Your wasting each others time. Just let go. Its scary, but you will land on your feet. When you love someone you just love them, no matter what. Even if you know you can get someone more attractive, with more money, etc. it wont matter because you cant imagine life without that person. Thats how it should be. Plus, youre in college. Live it up! Just dont be a whore. Some women try to justify their whorish ways as exercising their strong femeninity, but no guy is gonna look at it like that. Hope that helps. Peace
2006-10-24 05:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by The Who 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Cheating is not just a physical act. It’s anything that takes an ounce of attention away from your relationship. You are using your time and energy trying to figure out if other men like you. That kind of attention should only be for your man.
If your relationship is over, then talk with your boyfriend and end your union before moving on to others.
Cheating is never good, because you cheat yourself too, with a lie.
Be blessed and honest with yourself, at all times.
2006-10-24 06:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl your not married to the guy, so there's nothing wrong with you having friends, and if it turns out there is something going on between one of your guy pals (more then a friendship) then let your bf know that you don't think this long distant relationship is working and you want to start dating guys who live in the same state. I'm sure he'll get over it and if it's possible maybe you guys can stay friends and if it was meant to be then if all else fails you will end up back together if it was meant to be!!! good luck.....
2006-10-24 05:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not cheating. Not fair though for the bf. If you're wanting to see other guys, break up with the bf first...you'll fell better about it.
2006-10-24 05:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by hotsavannah21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just have a heart to heart conversation with your boyfriend --- tell him it's too hard for you to carry on with the relationship when he's going to a different school in another state... it's called breaking up.
Then you can feel free to seek out a guy who meets all your requirements.
2006-10-24 05:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only cheating if you kiss them or do anything else with the other guys that is not your boyfriend. If you are having thoughts about breaking it off with you boyfriend, I would do it regardless of the other two guys. You will thank yourself in the long run. If you are having doubts now, you will have problems later.
2006-10-24 05:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 'just' a bf, you're not cheating. It would be different if you were engaged. If you don't have a ring you should feel free to date other guys. However, you should be fair and tell him. Maybe he has the same problem!
2006-10-24 05:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not ,,not unless you go out with them,,if you love love your bf don't cheat...but if the issue here is that your bf is going out to college in another state then consider a separation cause i don't think he will be able to faithful...just think about first,,,i think you know your bf more then we do....
2006-10-24 05:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he never finds out its not cheating. Just kidding,besides you're very young, casual relationships are totally recommended. Be young and explore and meet new people. Trust me he's doing the same.
2006-10-24 05:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋