My ex says he is the same person,nothing's changed but see who he was before was the person i fell in love with, but also was the person that in the end i didn't think i could be with.And now the person he seems to be is not who i want to be with in some ways but in others he's exactly who i want and that's why i want to give it another chance.So who the hell is he?And is it a good or bad thing that he says he is the same person,that he hasnt changed???As you can see i'm very confused!!
2006-10-24 05:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey be honest with yourself if he hasnt changed that means he really hasnt changed. All those things you couldnt live with are all still there so unless you have changed and those things dont bother you anymore this isnt going to work out any better than it did the first time.
2006-10-24 05:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the first thing you need to do is find out what you want. Second, people always change. Maybe not both people, but most of the time somebody changes, whether it be a new job, going back to school, new goals and priorities. And when you get involved in a serious committed relationship, there are always compromises and in a sense the person compromising must change. If you did not like your ex towards the end of your relationship, maybe it is because he stayed the same, he did not change as your life might have moved along. So if you were not happy then, you probably will not be happy now. He is an ex for a reason and maybe you just need to find somebody new who is more like the person you are now.
2006-10-24 05:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've gotta look at a couple different things. Have you changed and decided you wanted something different? YOu may have done some growing yourself and decided that you don't want to settle now. Talk to him and try to find out if there is something going on in his head that he just doesn't bring up. Any number of internal things can wear on a person and change who they appear to be, sometimes without them even knowing what they're doing.
2006-10-24 05:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by dixieland delight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is; They call them Exes for a reason. You left him before because you didn't like him and if he's the same...you'll leave him again. Don't waste your time, you're just making yourself walk in circles.
2006-10-24 05:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Yondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused myself.
2006-10-24 05:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will you stop babbling about your ex and just move on?
2006-10-24 05:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothin has changed. if you dident want to be with him then you wont want to be with him now.
2006-10-24 05:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by kirstin p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-24 05:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Pizza Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go there. leave it alone, move on
2006-10-24 05:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋