me and my girlfriend, of over 2 years now, both of us deeply in love, in fact we are about to be engaged;meaning i'm about to propose, are having sexual problems. about a year ago we use to do sexual activities almost every day then we started having relationship problems. we started to argue and not get along, only to find out what we were arguing abut was easily fixed, hence us being happier now then we ever was. however, i had several mental problems and didnt want to face relationship problems and was too immature to try to work an argument out so i ran from her and our problems and broke up with her and started dating another girl and slept with her 1 time to try to get over my ex, but it didnt work, i missed her more than ever and went crawling back and i have changed completely and now we have the best relationship that there has ever been, (6 month period) however since this she cant seem to have sex with me b/c she hates seeing me w/ someone else..? what can i do to fix this
2006-10-24 05:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suppose you'll just have to give her some more time to work things out in her mind. She obviously doesnt want to take such a thing lightly because if she forgives too easily, you just may do such a thing again. That's something statistically measured. If things are better than theyve ever been, then that's a good sign and keep moving forward and dont pressure her to snuggle too soon or you might push her away. Just be yourself and give her some time. :) Happy nuptuals.
2006-10-24 05:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well brandon, since im your girlfriend, dont you think you should come to ME with these questions?
is it so wrong for me to NOT want to have sex anymore because maybe i have grown up and feel it would be more special after we have tied the knot?
is it so wrong that maybe since we used to fool around almost everyday in the past that i may be burnt out on it for a while and not want to do anything?
is it so wrong that maybe i still havent gotten over all that youve said and done to me and i dont want to be that close to you right now?
youre a damn grown man. dont get on yahoo and ask other people about our problems when we are the only ones with the answers about eachother.
really now.... think about it!
jessie
2006-10-26 15:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by jess s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants a diamond with commitment...try that
2006-10-24 12:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything to fix it. She has to fix it. She has to decide to move on or move out.
2006-10-24 12:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't blame her.. she is just scared she needs to be able to get close to you again
2006-10-24 12:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by >>simple<< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋