this is a follow up question for the previous question asked:
a lady friend gonna meet her bf online soon&he is a bipolar,is it safe for her kids if the guy stays w/ them?
2006-10-24 04:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by lucky s 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I wouldn't want to put myself or my kids in taht sort of situation. She just does not know enuf about him to make an informed decision. He should stay in a hotel!
2006-10-24 04:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it is not safe nor appropriate for the guy to stay at her house, especially if children are in the house. His getting mad about it is even more validation that she made a correct decision not to have him in her home at this time. Knowing someone on-line is not the same as interacting with them in person and really getting to know what kind of person they are and what you can expect from this person.
2006-10-24 04:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's not safe, not because he is bipolar but because online dating is risky. I am bipolar and I would never hurt a lover or a child. I can't say as much for every person I've had an online relationship with.
2006-10-24 04:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you're reacting in simple terms large. it quite is in simple terms courtesy to enable you comprehend the place he's at and how long he's going to be. asserting he's going to play golf together with his buddies, large large, yet while he leaves the golf direction, might it injury for him to call and say he's going for a lager and could be late. No, it does no longer. attempt to locate some the thank you to spend your very own time with out him. Invite the girls over, or flow out with them. it quite is not payback or revenge, notwithstanding it is going to shop you from turning out to be a basket case each time he forgets to enable you comprehend he's going to be long previous long. He could be greater gentle on your emotions. shop your temper. don't get fussy or gruesome. Be sensible and calm. clarify why you hardship or get dissatisfied. tell him which you care approximately him. tell him why you sense the way you do. do no longer enable your self get drawn right into a combat. If he gets mad, you may forget approximately approximately it. don't get mad returned. in simple terms ask that he take 2 minutes to call to enable you comprehend it quite is he's large, yet going someplace else. He needs to confirm that what he's doing is the habit of a sulky toddler or a unmarried guy. he's not the two. Going out all day and night isn't suitable once you have different standard jobs. he's have been given a spouse and a house that want his interest. Is golf and drink together with his buddies greater substantial to him than his spouse and abode? that's what his habit says from the way you have defined it. Is there a reason he continues to be away lots? if so, then he needs to saty a artwork it out, no longer run far flung from it. you may locate out if he's unhappy with you, and if so, why. If it quite is fixable, then restoration it! do no longer sit down at abode watching for him to be suitable on an identical time as you're no longer. no one is. verbal exchange is the main. you like greater of it. perchance you 2 want counseling.
2016-10-16 08:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by benavidez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A resounding NO!! If she makes such arrangements, I would insist that you have Child Protective Services check out the arrangement within 24 hours after he arrives.
PLEASE do so. They are better able to assess the safety of the situation, which I suspect is minimal.
This is such a sad commentary on society, that women are lowered to accepting people whose behavior is unacceptable just to be part of a couple.
2006-10-24 04:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no.....my mom is bipolar and not getting to much into my childhood life.....I moved out when I was 18. I couldn't take it anymore....when bipolor ppl get on that manic swing it could go two ways....they are either really happy and hyper or really mean and hyper. And you don't want to be in there way when they are mean....they loose all control.
2006-10-24 04:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets mad at her for saying no, that paints a picture of an abusive personality. She needs to distance herself from that.
2006-10-24 04:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baaaaad stuff, hooking up with a bipolar guy over the internet....
2006-10-24 04:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Run for your life!
2006-10-24 04:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so, you never know what he is capable of....
2006-10-24 06:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋