Recently the step son of my dad's best friend and I slept together. He is 20 and I am 26. He is a very nice guy and the way it all happened was very sweet. He was sweet and gentle and now he ignores my calls. He and I have been very good friends for a while now before that happened and I am not sure how to approach him so that we can if nothing else save the friendship since we have to deal with eachother because of our parents. Any advice?
2006-10-24 04:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is young and may still tend to handle delicate relationship issues such as this immaturely, especially since you are a little older. I'm sure that because of the age difference and previous friendship, he may feel a bit awkward and probably just doesn't know what to say.
I think what you need to do is determine what it is you yourself would like out of the situation....friendship like before?....friends with benefits?.....relationship?...You may have to take the initiative in this one, waiting for him may prove pointless. Just be upfront and honest with him about where you want this to go next, and then take it from there. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-24 04:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may come across as mean (not intended) but have you thought of the possibility that maybe he was friends with you to get in your panties? and perhaps now that hes gotten what he wants he doesn't want to have a relationship with you....
It could also be that hes shy or embarassed now and doesn't know how to act around you etc...in which case you should not make contact until your dads meet and act as though everything is how it use to be - he'll follow suit if you lead the conversation etc.
2006-10-24 11:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep some dignity. He used you. Don't contact him, When you see him again, act like nothing ever happened and ignore him.
For some reason today's girls don't get it, once they give it away, the guy moves on, it is not love to jump into bed with a man. If you want a man to respect you and cherish you, don't give in so easily.
2006-10-24 11:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to him, he feels funny, because of the sexual relationship you shared, just go talk to him, and tell him how you want to be friends still
2006-10-24 11:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and let him know what is going on and how you feel about the whole situation and maybe he feels the same way
2006-10-24 11:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call.
He might be feeling embarrassed, or awkward of seeing you again.
2006-10-24 11:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2006-10-24 11:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋