im scared of guys. I mean litteraly scared to death. The way they look at you when they are mad. It kills me.Ive been in abusive realtionships and I always get cheated on or hit.
I dont understand. Im a good girl(good grades, honor classes, band member, dance line, always at school, and i have alot of friends) but the only guys i get (well want) are horrible and treat me like crap. Recently at one of the footbal games i pissed my boyfriend off and he gave me this look and all I could do was cry. I was so scared like more than ever. everythings better now but i was wondering do you think that Im gonna be scared of him from now on. Forcing me to stay with him even if things go really wrong? I mean i was more scared than when my dad would get mad at me. Serious answers please this really upset me.
THANKS !!
2006-10-24 04:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by x3holdaloverclose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First Off : Im really sorry that this is happening to you. No one should have to be so horribly scared of something like this. Get away from these boys. Maybe you fear is so strong, your sensing that its going to happen again so I suggest maybe, just concenstrate on your school work like you already are and not boys really for a little bit, that might be really hard because -im assuming your in highschool- High School is filled with couples everywhere so it might be hard. GIm not sure what else I can say, its a bit hard to explain what Im thinking, but I guess thats it. =) Be careful there k? Keep your self safe, you see a guy coming at you , looking mad, run like heck!!. Stay Safe! =)
2006-10-24 04:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he looked at you mean does not mean that he may hurt you. Look i understand that you have been in really bad relationships but you should not take crap from these guys because its wrong. Not all guys are abusive you should not think that the guy that your with will hurt you because his well a guy he may not be that type that disrespect lady's he may be really respectful. I really hope this helps you.
2006-10-24 04:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is in the next to last sentence in your statement. Something your DAD did when he was upset with you brings out all these feelings of being scared. You need to address this issue. As for you bf you need to clean house.
2006-10-24 04:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your priorities in order, Finish school first, get a job , start traveling in different circles, if you know what I mean and quit looking for a quy. When the time is right the right guy will find you.
2006-10-24 04:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by tom_nearhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear come on before u end up with relationship with some dumbo first get to know him and dont go for looks only.if u like him enter into a relationship. and for ur guy trouble join some confidence bulding activties such martial classes or self defence classes.
2006-10-24 04:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him get away I have worked with too many young people who have been injured in ways to horible to mention, from abusive boy/girl friends. It will never get better, and never change. If you boubt me talk to a school counsler. Never give a person a second chance to hurt you.
2006-10-24 04:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by roger k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in abusive relationships in the past have deeply disturbed you. You should seek counseling so that you can date without the fear of being abused. This is not healthy behavior, but normal after being abused.
2006-10-24 04:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is a h@e and he should not ever hit a young lady no matter how mad he gets.forget him tell him i am your new boyfriend.
i will treat you right and never hit you.
and knock out boys who try.
2006-10-24 04:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by young_bro42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could do better than that you just choose not to
2006-10-24 04:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a therapist answer......
2006-10-24 04:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Blazzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋