I have a girlfriend already, but we don't go to the same school, and the relationship is a tiny bit one-sided, and we haven't even kissed once. Now there are two HOT girls at my school who I have gotten to know, and it seems they really like me. Now my girlfriend is not about to let me go. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 04:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by Drew G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait a minute, most guys get a girlfriend and other girls can smell that on you, and all of a sudden they look at you in a whole other light, then being dumb boys, we break up with our original girlfriend, then we think we have enough game to get the other girls, only to find out that they were just flirting with you, now you will have no girlfriends at all, you know when the grass starts looking greener on the other side of the fence, it's time to water your own grass! you need to invest in the relationship your in now, take it slow, don't jump just to jump
2006-10-24 04:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're asking this question--end it with your girlfriend. It sounds like you two are in dire straights for several very large reasons;
1. not on the same page, physically or even mentally, it seems
2. your eyes are roving, and you're considering an escape option, so your relationship with her is obviously of not much import
3. if she's not about to 'let' you go, there are some serious control/possion issues abounding here
Break up with her, and be firm about it. 'We can still be friends' is a fairytale, for the most part. It usually only plays out succesfully when friendship is persued quite sometime *after* the break-up period. Distance yourself, minimal contact, and maybe a few months down the road you can start hanging with her again--should you desire her company, no residual feelings are lingering, and vice versa...
Don't get involved with anyone else for a while, either. Most importantly; be honest with any and all parties you become intimate with. If you're honest, you might be that 'non-commital player', but you will have the playboy stereotype going for you, and no one can blame you for being true to yourself AND others even though it's a harder route to take. If you're dishonest, you're that 'slimey non-commital playing coward'; not much sex appeal in that.
Be safe kiddo.
2006-10-24 04:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you loved your girlfriend you would not need to look at other girls just make up your mind what you want and go for that you cant make them all happy if you have to ask this question .Be honest with yourself and the other girl you chose .
2006-10-24 04:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have a girlfriend you have not even kissed ??
This is not a girlfriend...
This is a friend who is a girl...
Go for the HOT girls...
2006-10-24 04:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a triangle, thats almost a square!
i think if you believe that your current relationship is onesided (on her side) then you have to break up with her. doesnt sound like a true relationship to me!
2006-10-24 04:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by statistics 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend that you would like to just 'date' her because you simply feel too young to be tied down right now. She'll just have to work that out herself. She doesn't 'own' you.
2006-10-24 04:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NONE!!! BREAK OFF!! BREAK OFF!! NOT GOOD, MAN!!! They might hate each other just coz of you. It sounded as if you're not worthed for both of them. Sorry to say, but it's better if you find another girl who's not related to none of them..
2016-05-22 06:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are not married so i suggest go for yours! Really. you are not in this world to make anyone else happy except for you 1st and the one you love! wink ;)
2006-10-24 04:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the HOT girls, you want to and you will regret it if you dont.
2006-10-24 04:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a realtionship you need what is called trust. If you dont love your girlfriendd then move on.
2006-10-24 04:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋