My girfriend and I are both 13, and weve dated for almost a year but havent kissed yet. How do I set the mood?

Answer 1

At this age, setting mood is the wrong choice. But rather creating opportunity.
Make a bet with her on something you're confident at. For example, you're good at bowling and is confident to get a strike. And so, you tell her if you get a strike now, would she gives you a kiss. If she wants to kiss you, she will say yes.
There you go. But like many others said, don't rush things or you will just look like a horny bastard. And, don't show it off to your male frds. You will just be wrecking your chance with her.

Have fun!

Answer 2

YOU are WAY too young... but as a 21 yr old woman Ill tell you. When I was that young I was shy to kiss my bf so what you can do is make her comfortable. Take her some place quiet. If its in a room make sure you are not on the bed because that is way to forward for you age. The bed says sex, your looking for kiss and that more on the floor,oooohhh. you two can watch a movie thats quiet and alone right. I dont know if you two are allowed to do that any way, quite comfortable place. Let her know how cool she is to hang out with and that you really like her and stuff. While your doing that whole conversation stuff make sure you look her in the eyes you need direct eye contact. After you have complimented her make her smile by saying something like "and your beautiful too... except for that ugly spot on your face" she says "where" you say " the whole thing" tell her your kidding right away, you two will laugh and then eye contact and then kiss. First do a peck. and then look her the eyes again, and make sure she liked it, if you can tell she did, then keep eye contact and kiss her big. Dont do the whole grabbing body parts that is way too childish and unattractive, instead lighty press your hand on the back of her head where it meets her neck and draw her in a little closer to get a deeper kiss. Now its up to you to use your tongue but I would make sure shes okay with it first. You dont want to make her uncomfortable that may ruin the moment and practive this before you do it so it will be perfect, the best kiss shes ever had and ever will have you know? good luck

Answer 3

I can see the plethora of people coming to rail against the thought of two thirteen year olds kissing. It's sad that physical touch immediately has to indicate more sinister motives and paths. Can't anyone remember how innocent and wonderful a 'puppy love' kiss can be??

I suggest writing her a poem and reading it to her when you two are alone. Make sure the setting is memorable; a park, under the stars, sitting by a stream, anything that's not the equivalent of mum's garage or something tacky--it will be your first kiss with her, after all. Muster all the confidence that you can, be self-assured, and she will most likely follow suit. Hold her hand as you read it to her; it doesn't have to be anything grandiose or false (such as great proclamations of life and love that you're certainly not ready to make yet) but something as simple as her positive qualities, why you like being with her, ect. Take one of her hands, touch her neck or cheek with your free hand. Move in to kiss her slowly (so that she has time to move away if she's not ready, and if she is, she'll either stay still--she might be shy, awkward, nervous, but she's not moving away--or lean in towards you a little), staring into her eyes, close your eyes when your mouths are close, and seal it with a kiss. There ya go!

Now remember, should you end up in a little make-out session, try not to shove your tongue down her throat or get all saliva-ey. A lot of people recommend wetting your lips, but I and a lot of my friends personally find it a little off-putting. A dry kiss can be just as sweet, and cleaner.

Good luck kiddo!

(PS; I don't recommend a first kiss as being something stolen in a movie theater or car seat--that's just tacky.)

Answer 4

Someone before mentioned puppy love kiss. Wake up!!!! In today's world these youngsters have long passed puppy love. They are way ahead of some adults. Encouraging these kinds to do these types of things will only lead to a disaster. These 13 year old kids can not take care of themselves much less take care of each other. For goodness sake, encourage them to go get an education first.

Answer 5

I know kids are growing up fast these days but maybe you should slow down to enjoy your youth. Sure most of your friends are making out but is this girl someone you want to marry. (Wow, I was just asking about kissing) Physical relations with someone should not be taken lightly. My wife was the first girl I ever kiss and it makes our relationship stronger. If you are not thinking about marriage then maybe just be friends.

Answer 6

No mood needed. Just do it. Otherwise, some other guy will come and set the mood she wants and so long to you. What are you waiting for?

Answer 7

Be really nice to her. You seem like a nice person anyway.

And try to make sure the place you are at is relatively secure from others, cause' that will give you both privacy. And also a chance to open up to each other, and laugh, and talk abit.

Maybe not too secluded. That can be alittle scary.

Answer 8

Make some pop-corn and watch a movie. Tell her how pretty she is and what you like about her. Once you get her all buttered up, lean in for the kiss. Just remember that if you guys don't kiss, you still have plenty of time. Your young, so don't be in a rush to do anything stupid.

Answer 9

First of all don't rush anything, if its the right moment to kiss you'll know. but you could try talking to her about it and let her know that you really want to kiss her but that if she is not ready its totally OK. Have you tried kissing her cheek or forehead? that might create some comfort and then everything will flow, But don't ever rush anything because you don't want her to have a bad impression or bad memories with you.

Answer 10

Put on some Barry White and let the mood floooooooooow