I am in love with my boyfriend! But there is two other guys who seem to call and bug me. Well my boyfriend hates them talking to me. The one guy keeps texting me and trying to get me go out with him and like he texted my boyfriend and told him i was dating the guy....but i am not i am only dating my boyfriend. How do i get my boyfriend to believe me that i am not cheating? he also told me that he is getting tired of all the drama so i have to put a stop to it or he is going to break up with me. HELP ME!!!
2006-10-24 03:58:31 · 15 answers · asked by crazybayb20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you mean what should you? Simple, figure out how much your boyfriend means to you and if he is the one you really want to be with and then get rid of anyone else who is interfering with your relationship because if the others don't have respect for the fact that you are already in a relationship, they will have no respect for you even if you were to leave your boyfriend and date one of them. If you want to show him that you are not with anyone else, give up the others and spend more time with him so he will see that you are always there. If you choose not to and he breaks up with you, you deserve it. He told you how he feels and if you do not respect that, then the consequences are all on you.
2006-10-24 04:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is simple...TELL both of the OTHER guys to STOP or you will be forced to file harassment charges against them. Also how did the one get your bf's cell number? Keep the text messages as evidence in case you have to carry through and file the harassment charges and show them to your bf. By the way if the was NOT a trust issue (and there shouldn't be) your boyfriend should believe YOU.
2006-10-24 11:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by ladylupi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is get the other guys to stop texting and calling you. Unless you like the drama, keep it going, but if you really love your bf then get rid of the other guys. You both will be a lot better off.
2006-10-24 11:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply need to tell the guys that they should show more respect for both you and your boyfriend and leave you both alone. Then, tell your boyfriend that you're planning to just ignore them and that you hope he'll do the same. Don't answer the other boys if they call or come by or anything. Just completly forget about them and focus on you and your man. The other boys will give up and you'll have less to worry about.
2006-10-24 11:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU can stop the drama. Refuse to talk to the other guys and ignore the text messages. That seems pretty easy. I don't blame your boyfriend, NOBODY likes that kind of drama.
2006-10-24 11:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess...you're loving all this attention, aren't you? I'll bet that you tease the other boys just enough to keep them interested and calling you. If you had made it clear that you had a steady boyfriend...they wouldn't persist in asking you out. And that does sound like too much drama. I doubt you're really 'in love' either. If other girls were calling your boyfriend, and he was taking their calls, you wouldn't find this so humorous. Only you can help yourself--sure you really want to though.
2006-10-24 11:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the other guys to leave you alone, and if they don't then just hang up on them, or don't answer their text messages. If your boyfriend doesn't trust you, then get a different one.
2006-10-24 11:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant u block that guys #. why answer that guys call. the truth is that u can cut off these other guys but for whatever reason u dont cuz u dont want to be mean right. well get mean and cut them off or lose yur bf
2006-10-24 11:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i had the same problem when me and my fiancee got together. before him i had alot of guy friends and he knew that. but when we got together i saw that it bothered him that they would still call and ask me to go out with them. So what i did was change my tel. phone number. If you really want things to work out with your bf, then you should know what to do to make it last.
2006-10-24 11:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the guy that is texing all the time to lay off. You do not need him. If you can't tell him that, you might want to reconsider your boyfriend
2006-10-24 11:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋