2006-10-24 03:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Decide who you want to be with more. Don't lead either one of them on tho because it will only end up hurting all 3 of you in the long run. Date both of them on a more friendly basis ( but I would inform them both of the fact I am seeing someone else too) and then make your decision based on who you feel more compatible with.
2006-10-24 03:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Be honest with your boyfriend--you are interested in someone else. Plain and simple. It's not whether or not it'll work, it's that you are liking someone else.
2) Be honest with yourself--can you stay faithful with your boyfriend? What can this new guy offer you that your boyfriend can't? What makes you think that if you dump your boyfriend for this new guy that you won't keep having wandering eyes and thoughts?
3) Don't make any rash decisions. Sure listen to your heart (blah blah blah), but be real. Don't make a decision on pure emotions or because you THINK you want to make this decision. Weigh both your decisions. Maybe the right answer to just become friends with each of them for a while.
2006-10-24 11:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your boyfriend, be honest witht his other guy, Find out what your boyfriend expects from you and ask him if he would mind if you dated this other guy as well, you are not married! This means you also have to tell the other guy about your boyfriend and what your intentins are, if you want to date both date both but one may not go for that and then you'll have to go from there and come up with a different plane.
2006-10-24 11:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, ask yourself is it really worth it. If you feel it is, communicate! Let your boyfriend know that you are having feelings for someone else. Inform him of your intent to entertain your curiousity, then, and only then should you proceed. Maybe you are not ready for a monogamous relationship. Perhaps you should "date" for a while until you are certain about what you really want.
2006-10-24 10:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by godhainder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out one day and spend the day by yourself. Think about what you love about your boyfriend and think about what you love about this other guy. Think about your feelings for both of them. Listen to your heart and your gut. What does your gut and your heart tell you. Whatever you decide, just remember, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Take your time in deciding. Rome wasn't built in one day and you don't have to decide in one day.
2006-10-24 11:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously not a friend if hes trying to get between you and your man ive been in this situation before i made a mistake but my fella was fortunately understanding i hope you dont make the same choice as i did but its up to you who you see yourself with longer x
2006-10-24 10:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by eilym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,,,,,,you really can't have them both so you and you alone must make a choice...I really think you need to stay with your present boyfriend and forget about this other guy,,,,don't be so greedy....
2006-10-24 10:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be fair to the "other" guy, you should really let him know that your already in a relationship and dont want to hurt his feelings.
2006-10-24 10:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Matt B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow the example of your parents and sociaty in general
2006-10-24 10:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i wrere u i would go with i really know alot ok =0
2006-10-24 14:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by teababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋