last week he was telling me what he has for me is much deeper than love.. that love isnt enough... & these days he doesnt even check his mobile phone to see if i sent him an sms or called him..... i talk to him & he doesnt care... why did he suddenly change?
2006-10-24 03:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO i did not sleep with him!
he worked hard to drag my attention... when i did he was soooooooo happy & it was like heaven to him... now what happened? i don kno..
2006-10-24 03:46:03 · update #1
This guy obviously wanted something from you when he said that he loved you so much.
If he is an honest man, then he may have lost interest in you because you didn't respond to his confession of love for you with equal love of your own for him.
Love has to be mutual in order to work well. And it doesn't work well when the guy is wiping the floor with his ego in front of you, and you take his feelings for granted and don't respond with the same feelings towards him.
But if he is a dishonest man, then perhaps he was lying about his feelings for you in order to get something from you. And now you are seeing his true feelings in his behavior towards you.
Whether he is an honest man or not is for you to judge because you know him better than anybody here answering your question can possibly know.
2006-10-24 04:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be making more out of this, then it is. He said in so many words he loves you. But it seems as if you was a challenge, and now that he has got you, no telling what he is thinking now. You need to talk to him, and see where his head is coming from.
2016-03-28 06:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-love requires maintenance
-many men follow their "hearts" when they don't realize that they are actually following their FEELINGS. that's why they are so passionate in the first place... because sometimes it's not real, unfortunately.
i had to learn this the hard way, and i took it very personally. i wondered how could someone love me so much and then not care at all.. but i realized it wasn't really about me. it took 2 years to get that straight in my head. good luck and God bless you
2006-10-24 03:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would think that he is interested in someone else. I'm sorry. Guys are like that. They say things that they think we want to hear. I just went through this myself. When ever a guy backs away after coming on strong, you can almost guarantee it's because he's coming on strong to someone else. I'm sorry.
2006-10-24 03:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by nursejuley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl hav violent mood swings or even multiple
personalties,i'v had women who told me iwas their soulmate
and break up w me in less than a month,,,,
suggestion--go slowly w someone make sure he's not psycho
2006-10-24 03:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by enigma q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to play you to get you to sleep with him. He's ignoring you so you'll panic and beg him to be with you. DUMP HIM.
2006-10-24 03:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it maybe a test or he got bored i think its more of the test to see how long u will try to stay with him or that since he got u it dont matter to him no more lust it may have been or a test idk good luck to u and um hold on
2006-10-24 03:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Pawel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he feeding you a line of bull
2006-10-24 03:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just said that to string you along I think.
2006-10-24 03:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pissed him off really bad, or hes spotted a hotter girl
2006-10-24 03:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋