2006-10-24 02:56:40 · 27 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old are you?
dont you want a man that you want to get to know? that will love you and your children?
i dont think any man would want to just get married and have kids just like that, they would want to get to know you first.
You just want a baby maker. Men aint robots you know!
2006-10-24 02:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could approach a company that deals in arrange marriages either in this country or aboard.
But why do you want to get married so much.
Do you believe that this will make you more complete or is that all your friends are now married with kids.
Have you looked at the statics concerning the high divorce rate within the country and is this what you really like for your kids.
Why is dating such a problem, how are you going to get to know the man without going on dates.
When thinking of having children don't you believe that it is best for them to find a person who will be there for you them for the rest of your their life. How can you make that judgement if you marry the first man that will. He could be anyone.
Please reconsider what you are asking.
2006-10-24 10:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by christine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys that would love to get married and start a family. You seem like you want this to happen overnight though. There is no magic wand you can wave and poof, your ideal partner appears. You have to put the effort into looking around for the right one. Some people do online dating, some go out to clubs, some find their soul mates at church or the supermarket. Marraige and raising kids is a HUGE step in anyone's life, and you need to take some time to know the person before this happens. There are people who have met and married a month later, but will it last? Most people date, then get into a serious relationship, then talk marraige...sometimes taking years to do it. Be patient...the right guy will come along when you least expect it. I would marry and raise kids, but I'd also want to spend enough time to get to know my partner, or at least her name before I did!!
2006-10-24 10:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop being so desperate to have kids and get married and concentrate more on having fun with your life.
These obsessive thoughts you are having will only drive you insane and stand in the way of happiness. Once you have achieved this goal of marriage and kids, what then? What will you have once you got this dream?
Focus on building a life for yourself which you are happy in and hopefully someone will want to join you.
2006-10-24 09:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you have to make sure that the person loves you for who you r and not what u r dont try to b so fast about marrying until you know that persons ways for sure because i dont want you to be in a relationship with someone that can mess up your life just because you were ready to get married and have kids get marrried to the person u love and everything will turn out the way you want it to
good luck i hope this helps
2006-10-24 10:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think you really want to do that. Remember you will be living with this person and what if the guy you decide to marry is an abuser and starts getting violent with you or worse yet a sexual predator and abuses your children. You will at least want to get to know the person you marry at least a little bit.
2006-10-24 10:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by regg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? No guy want to be rushed into marriage and kids. Your best bet is to find a single father who is looking for a mother to help take care of the kids.
2006-10-24 10:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down, slow down,
lots of guys want this
but kids are a responsibility
and you need to take a responsible attitude and get a great relationship first where you can love each other and be a good team together
then if that works out ok you could have kids
but not sooo fast, one step at a time !!
2006-10-24 10:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up hope in finding a nice guy who will want to settle down with you. It takes time and if you look hard enough you will find him. Dont give up
2006-10-26 13:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried speed dating, internet dating, joining a dating agency or asking a friend to set you up with anyone they know?
I hope you find happiness what ever way you decide to search.
2006-10-24 09:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Missie's Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋