my bf broke up with me cuz him and his sisters agreed that he didnt need a girlfriend cuz he was skippin classes. Do guys normally do that or is it just me? I mean the day before he broke up with me he hardly left my side.
2006-10-24 02:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by brit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can really relate to you. I think this is a thing guys do for some reason. Take my example. Yesterday my boyfriend kept on saying how much he loves me, how beautiful I am, e.t.c. We had a really nice conversation and he kept on sending me cute txts. TODAY was a different story. He said he didn't love me anymore and flirted with my best friend right infront of me. I find that cruel-he played with my feelings, I though everything was fine and WHAM he ditches me the next day, without any warning.
I feel sad and confused.
But, in the words of texmex1011:
Life is too short for me and you to let ourselves waste away hoping and praying, crying and cursing. These people didnt want us? Thats up to them, there is nothing we can do about it.
One lesson I have learned is never to show weakness again, never let my standing be eroded by someone, never let my life be taken over again. You want to be in my life, thats great, but you are not going to be my life. I'm not getting any younger and I cant be doing with holding onto something slipperier than a greased up eel. My life is my own and I'm not going let one woman ruin it for me, we only have one chance in life to do the right thing, and the right thing is live it, not to mourn something out of our hands.
Do you agree with him? I do and reading it helped me find out that it is not my problem that my boyfriend dumped me without warning. It is his loss, not mine.
Hope I helped! Good luck!
2006-10-24 03:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really making you depressed, then i would go and get some professional help. Depression is very serious. But overall, I say that perhaps would can take a step back and overlook some faults. It's a good thing to be picky, but remember, the perfect pin-up girl doesn't exist. If there's a a girl you're remotely attracted to, one date couldn't hurt. Good luck!
2016-03-28 06:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with u its his sisters that have the problem sounds 2 me like he never wanted to break up with u
2006-10-24 02:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by hotvix1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is a flake. I would keep it as is right now and call it an experience. The sister is irrelevant.
2006-10-24 02:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing wrong with you sweetie...His sisters just had more influence on him....Also he didn't need to be skipping classes....Not good for his education....
2006-10-24 02:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has grow up and become men. Leave him alone for the good of both of u.
2006-10-24 02:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too easily swayed by other people's opinions (sisters).
Move on, he was not good for you.
2006-10-24 03:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school, I imagine that is normal behavior.
2006-10-24 03:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you! Your just finding the wrong men.
2006-10-24 02:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres something wrong with your bf because he listen to his sister... girl if i would be you i wouldnt get back with him.......but if you really like him ....you know what to do
2006-10-24 03:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋