who can guarantee i will find happiness one day???? not everyone is happy after all, so why is life worth living?
2006-10-24 02:54:46 · 37 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chin up! I am not one to push religion but you are at a very vulnerable stage, careful what advice you take from someone. Talk to God about this. Ask God for foregiveness of your sins and ask him to reside in your heart. If you will do this and have faith you will not feel loneliness anymore. If you were to kill yourself you will loneliness for eternity. This is not an opinion of mine this is scripture from the most ancient teachings available to us. Have a good cry cover your head up and let it all out and then go have an Ice Cream and do whatever it is that makes you happy. Remember if Christ isn't holding your hand it is not because he turned you loose. Dane
2006-10-24 03:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees in life except death and taxes. And speaking of death...PLEASE tell me you are NOT serious about killing yourself. My dad killed himself when I was a year old. I of course don't remember anything about him, but I do know I wish I had just got to spend some time with him. I also know that my life was full of abuse from an angry drunk stepfather because of him dying. The most important thing I remember is how for several years my mom was so unhappy and hurt over him being so selfish and choosing the easy way out. No matter what you are feeling right now...it will not last forever. Being single isn't the worse thing in the world. I've been single now for 5 years, not even going out on a date. I have sort of got used to it. Yeah I get lonely and have needs, but I got tired of all the struggles you have to go through trying to stay in a relationship. No matter what I did or said, no matter how nice I was...they always seem to think they can find someone better. No matter how lonely I get...LIFE IS WORTH LIVING!! There is so much to do and so many years to do it in. How old are you? You sound like you might be a young teen. If so, YOU HAVE A LOT TO LIVE FOR! Think of the people you would hurt. Think of all the great things you may never get to do. Need to talk? paesano2578 yahoo. com
2006-10-24 03:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>Be realistic, suppose you killed yourself and the happiness you are looking for was just a week into the future (or a Month, or a Year for that matter.) Wouldn't that be a shameful waste of a life? Wouldn't that be a sure way to miss the happiness you're looking for? Yeah, killing yourself is a really bad idea.
The only thing guaranteed in life is change...change goes both ways. Stick around, stay alert, stay smart and your "problem" will, very likely, resolve itself.
Pick it up! There is a (good) match out there for everyone.<
2006-10-24 03:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Druid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is trite, but you have to love yourself first. I believe that if you do that you will become irresistable to the opposite sex. How do you love yourself? Change your belief system. Do you really think finding that special someone will make your life better? If you never had a man in your life again would you destroy yourself over the loss? Or would you create a wonderful life for yourself? Why is life worth living? Because of the good times and the bad. You will learn from the bad and it will make the good that much better.
2006-10-24 03:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by tanglo02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honestly.. I'm not trying to belittle your sadness but come on.. we ALL go through it! Not one person escapes it in life and I'm sure if you have a warm place to sleep and food in your belly there are many people worse off than you. Perhaps if you were to experience real hardship, you may feel lucky just to have the sun shine on your face.
Try going for a walk. You simply can not rely on another person to make you happy and no person wants to be the sole reason for anothers happiness. It's too much pressure. Find your own happiness and someone will want to share it.
2006-10-24 02:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is a wonderful gift! You never wait for some one else to make you happy! Your the one who must work at making you happy! It's
no ones job to make you happy, but your self! That's not a good job to try and place that on some one elses shoulders.
In life you take the good and bad that comes your way! Your attitude has a great deal to do with your happiness! Your attitude is the biggest part of it!
2006-10-24 03:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being single is not bad, and no reason to die!!! get a grip. i can guarantee u happiness. evryone is always happy @least once in thier life! plp r not happy all d time, true. but r happy wid some part of their life. try being a bit optimistic, u'll find ur someone someday. keep hope, that's the only thin that keeps mankind goin
i know everythin that i said sounds cliched but it's true. i used to be in ur position 3 years ago and go into it once in a while now too. but look @ the bright side. look @ what ur missin cring over what u don't have.
love urself, love life. u'll find ur way . best of luck :0
2006-10-24 03:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will guarantee it. Im not happy, not by a long shot. today, i feel the worst i have felt in a long time. Butthe world always gets better. Look at it this way, u probably feel the worst you have ever felt right at this moment, right? Well, how can the world get any worse? there is only one direction to go from here, and that is up. So you may as well stick it out.
GoodLuck=)
2006-10-24 02:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have patience for reading each word of this text:-
One has to die either after eighty seconds or after eighty years. He may live a couple of decades more; nevertheless, he will have to die after that. Birth and death are certain in our life. So do not make haste in killing yourself.
Stand in front of a mirror and ask your self … are you the person who should be killed for no fault of him. An innocent person, who has born to live and not to die prematurely, should be given a chance to find ways to live.
You are right that no body in this world is happy. Even then the life is worth living as we are born human beings… we are lucky that we are not cockroaches or leaches or rodents or something like chicken and lamb that are slaughtered in automated slaughterhouses… where blood drains out through huge pipes and their flash is converted into sealed packets as consumer items.
Pleasure in life is in our mind if you remove your mind from your person you would not be left with any troubles as every thing would look similar to you… being in solitude … or in a crowd… or with some partner… being insulted or worshipped… it is all because we have intellect… we understand… and sometimes misunderstand things around us… this is what you are doing right now…
Don’t go to anybody for guidance… simply start loving yourself… love your body… love your life that is not belonging to yourself only… there are so many others in your family… friend circle… in your work place… who might be loving you and you do not know about this fact… even your enemies need you to quarrel with you… you are needed everywhere and by everyone…
So, mix-up with people do not run away from crowd… laugh… go to cinema…go to temple… attend weddings… go for a tour to Tirupati or to flora and fauna of Kerala, India… You will find solace and you will understand the worth of your life…
Come out of your solitude and live like a common man, next door… Good luck
2006-10-24 06:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, suicide is not the answer. Coz if you just give life a break, and give it some time, I'm 100% sure that life will come back to you with warm and open arms.
Take it from a girl who's sick from life, but still finds a sanctuary, and it doesn't have to be love, it can be anything you desire. Take a break and meditate about your potentials. And about love, i'm sure if you're nice and tender, that someone someday will come and sweep you off your feet, I mean, everyone deserves a chance, even mean ppl.
2006-10-24 03:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Muslim Patriot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋