I'm in a relationship with someone. Recently a guy I've grown up with and always had feelings for told me he is hopelessly in love with me and had thinks of me every single day. He has a girlfriend too. I didn't really say anything to him at the time because I couldn't blurt out, hello i've always had feelings for you too. The thing is now I can't stop thinking about him and think he is the love of my life. I love him too! It's difficult though because we are both with other people. He told me he wasn't "in love" with her. AHH! HELP.
2006-10-24 02:42:12 · 27 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think you have something that is very strong.
Sometimes you have to stop playing safe and go for what you really want in this life.
Be brave follow your heart.
Good Luck
2006-10-24 03:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both sure of your feelings for each other then go for it. If you don't give it a try, you will never know if he is the love of your life. There must be something great between the two of you if you both feel the same way for each other. If you both feel so strongly, get out of your current relationships as soon as possible. Why be with someone when your heart is in another place and belongs to someone else. You can't let this chance pass you by. Best of luck to both of you!
2006-10-24 02:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention how your current relationship is. Was this one the "love of your life" in the beginning?
The old saying about "grass being greener on the other side of the fence" is definitely true. On the other hand, if this new guy is always going to "eat at you", then you really need to check it out. You do need to realize that you may NOT like him, and you will have destroyed an important part of your current love in the process.
It's a hard decision....and only YOU can make it.
2006-10-24 02:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is how do you feel about the guy you are with right now. You need to choose who you want to be with. Life is too short to spend it unhappy. Be sure you know what you want before you leave this guy. Be prepared as well that things might not work with this new guy, and by the time you figure that out you will probably will have burned your bridges with the guy you are currently with. Think about it.
2006-10-24 02:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing is the both of you need to leave the ones you are currently with before you can even start a relationship. Once you do that then the both of you can do as you please. Make sure you are fair and think of how you would feel if you found out your mate was cheating and did not have the guts to tell you first before he did it. LL.
2006-10-24 02:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both sure this isnt some passing phase then I think you need to go for it with this guy. Ask to meet up with him - talk things through - decide how you're going to finish things with your current partners and then get together.
If he is the love of your life - dont waste this opportunity and spend the rest of your life thinking what if? Good luck! xx
2006-10-24 02:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of you end your relationships and be together! There is nothing like the love of your life, don't waste any time! And as long as you're not married to the other person and there aren't any kids involved, it's so so easy. Just go for it!
2006-10-24 02:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by nicoled2408 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm I wish i had an answer for you, i am having a similar situation with a fellow that im friends with, i guess the only hope you can have is to, remain friends with the person, and maybe situations will change one day, so that you can be with them.....while you are both still alive there is still hope.....
2006-10-24 02:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was once in this exact same situation with a childhood sweetheart and although we were both aware of our feelings we probably would not have acted upon them.
that was until his gf at that time warned me away from him in front of several mutual friends.
my reply was " if i want him i will have him" - and so i did.
glad i did too as i really treasure those years we spent together.
funny thing is if she hadn't challenged me so publicly then i would have respected their relationship and left well alone.
2006-10-24 02:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by silly billy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was very disrespectful to both you and his girlfriend for him to come out and say that. If he is so hopelessly in love with you than what is he doing with her!? I think that u both should grow up a little.
2006-10-24 02:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋