i met this guy over the summer and we totally clicked. we dated for almost 10 mounths and my parents made me move 25 minutes away. we talk accasionally (spelling) and hung out once since i moved. we never had sex and he never asked for it... and thats a sign that he loved me. he still tells me he loves me when we talk. also i haven't had a good relation ship since him. its all just about sex and i hate that. should i call him and tell him how i feel. or just let him go and never find out if was really the on or not?!
2006-10-24 02:40:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CALL HIM! Tell him how you feel... Otherwise, you'll always wonder in the back of your mind "what if"... And those
"what if's" are not fun! Start enjoying your life!
2006-10-24 02:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be reading too much into him telling you that he 'loves you.' He may not mean that in the same way that you perceive it. So I suggest you address that the next time he calls you....does he mean that he loves you as a friend, as a human being, as a christian, or as a guy loves a girl. And him not pushing you for sex may speak more to his character than how he felt about you--he may be one of those rare guys that respects all girls. I'd definitely attempt to keep the guy as a friend....but don't be in such a rush for your relationship to be more than that. Learn from this experience.......so you'll be better prepared to handle those guys that don't respect you and just want to have sex. It's all about you....do what is best for yourself.
2006-10-24 09:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really know how you feel. But what does 25 minutes away have to do with anything. Time should'nt stop you from getting what's yours. If you truely love this guy, go get him. It's obvious that he has feelings for you, and 5 months without him made you realize that he ws the one for you. Man, I need to take this advice for myself!
2006-10-24 09:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell him. I am 35 years old and lived with an love for an ex for 20 years. After my divorce, I looked him up. We are still together and I've found that I shouldn't have waited so long. Don't let him go until you've told him. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-10-24 09:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Katlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the way you feel then I think you should tell him. I know that it is not easy because I was in a similar situation but it is good to tell him now so that you can see how he feels because he may feel the same way but if he doesn't then you know that you can move on.
2006-10-24 09:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Stasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live too far to get into a relationship with him, what purpose would you be serving to tell him you still love him if you can
t be with him. Its been 5 months. I think you should move on.
2006-10-24 09:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! 25 minutes away if really only just around the corner. Good Luck.
2006-10-24 09:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine, while you are twiddling your fingers trying to figure out what to do, he gets snapped by some other girl. Now you will regret that one for not having told him how you feel, well at least you will know, and know where to go from there other than just overworking you mind.
2006-10-24 09:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tahisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy question, Sounds like a guy that cares about you: Tell Him.
2006-10-24 09:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by prime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him just keep a good friendship with him if he was the one you will get back with him sooner or later.
2006-10-24 09:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋