what it is ,im 29 and fighting mental health problems, i have very low opinion of myself, low self worth?

Question

but another thing which i feel seperates me from other guys my age is that i have two teeth missing at the front bottom lower teeth, and my natural appearance is dark brown looking black which i dont like. so, i dye my hair a real light golden blonde and because i have a beard, full beard, i dye that to, because i dont like its natural dark colour. especially now i have my hair golden blonde which im content with even though im balding..problem is alot of the time i feel like a freak and on my own having these phsycall traits, plus i dont like the way im ageing, i feel on my own having these physicall traits, every other guy i see my age has a full set of teeth, is clean shaven, or if they do have a beard, its not dyed and their happy with their natural colour..i dont like being clean shaven because i dont like the way i look. i wanna no is there any other guy out there like me, who has the traits i do but is happy and lives successfully?? because i feel odd and the only one

i dont have a dark complesion, my beard is naturally dark i said

Answer 1

You can always fix your teeth if you want to, but don't forget that your look is something from within. Don't try to look like a certain type of person you think is cool. Develop your own appearance based on your features and be confident with it. I know that's easy to say, but if you relax and worry less about how others may perceive you, you may find out that you're not bad looking after all.

Bottom line: work with what you have and don't feel pressured to change your look to conform to some "standard" imposed by the media. You'll find that most people respond more to an inner peace and confidence than to your outward appearance. Enjoy life. That's what it's for.

Answer 2

Well these problems aren't too bad if you put them in prospective but let see. The teeth thing can be easily fixed by a dentist. I used to know a guy just like you. Put it this way his nickname was the Wolfman. We called him that because he like you only had his canine teeth so they looked like fangs. He also had a beard and a mustache. He wasn't a pleasant sight to behold by any sense of the imagination. However, he made an appointment with a cosmetic dentist and had some front false teeth put in. His teeth looked great. He kept his beard but, went natural with it but kept it trimmed and close to his face. No more of this mangy facial hair stuff. He actually look ten times better. Just a few minor things and he looked great. I believe he went on a diet too and lost a few pounds. We still call him the Wolfman but, that is because we always called him that so it stuck. He doesn't mind though. My point is that sometime you just need a few minor things to be changed to help your self confidence a bit. And being a dark complexion is not a big deal. Girls tend to like the darker complexion. Not like me white as a ghost (must be my Irish blood) So I would just go with a neater look check out a dentist and he might be able to fix your teeth. It can be expensive but most dentist will work out payment plans with you. I hope this helps. Take care and good luck.

Answer 3

Look, quit focusing on your outward appearance and get some help for your insides. You are more than teeth and hair and you really need to know and believe this. You are a valuable human being and worth loving regardless of your teeth, hair coloring etc. You don't know if every other guy is happy with their natural color, why do you think their is a whole line of hair dye products for men?

Answer 4

Heh, you don't have mental problems, you have an acceptance issue. Why don't you like the way you look after all it is your choice to look that way? As far as the teeth are concerned get them fixed It's your choice on that as well. I don't see what your problem is. Get over it. Life is full of differences get use to it.