i met this really cute guy and he is soooooo popular among girls and i really really like him!!but there are sooooo many girls in the way.do u think i should still have hope?
p.s.i am ok.not as popular as he is,but i think i am good.plz give me some advise!!!it's makin me sooooo depressed.
2006-10-24 02:06:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, youre good enough for him, it doesnt matter whether you are popular as him or not what matters is that you have a good personality and have a good heart, just display confidence and be yourself and whats good about you will shine through...
2006-10-24 02:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eThers' nothing you can do at this time, let things happen if it's meant to be, then it will happen. In the meantime you need to get more confident, even if you're not as popular as the other one's, look for the good qualities you have and build on them. Later in life popularity in school has no effect and doesn't mean anything. It will just be a memory, but the good qualitites you have will be the important thing. Don't focus too much on him because if nothing ever comes of it, you'll be even more depressed. There's lots of fish in the sea.
2006-10-24 09:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you are good enough for him, why should he? Do you really want to be in a relationship where you are always in somebody elses' shadow. It sounds like you would have a big trust issue if you do become involved with him because you have no confidence in yourself. Relationships are based upon trust and respect. Until you have faith in yourself hold off. and think if you want to be know as the popular boys girl or for who yo really are. Good luck in love.
2006-10-24 09:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something you should carry with you all your life: YOU ARE ALWAYS GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM. Popularity and cuteness does not a good person make. You shouldn't be brought down by things like that. What you really should be asking yourself if whether he's good enough for you.
2006-10-24 12:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be wondering if he was good enough for you!! Why do you like him? He may not be that nice of a guy to you if you actually spent time with him getting to know him. Get to know him well first before worrying about your popularity!
2006-10-24 09:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about all the other girls giving him attention the important part is how he feels about you.If he likes you the way you like him the others shouldnt matter.Id talk to him and see how he feels if you dont get relationship out of it youll at least get a new friend.
2006-10-24 09:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by feenexx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never think that you are not "good enough." He is only a human being just like you. Give it a shot. What can it hurt? If he doesn't feel the same way - his loss! Good Luck.
2006-10-24 09:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look not being popular doesnt stop someone from liking u...so forget that,and know that u r true to ur self
some day he'l ask u out,and if u wanna ask him,not a bad idea either
2006-10-24 09:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't help you, you need to help yourself. Stop thinking that you are not good enough for him. The reverse may in fact, be correct.
2006-10-24 09:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny youll never get him thinking like that! you are good enough for him and if this guy doesnt realise that then hes the one missing out right? :)
2006-10-24 09:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥çhÃrLiê $tå瀥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋