This girl and i have just started dating last week. we went on a double date and he hung out a few days ago. After we hung out i walked her back and i was gonna leave and then she said your not gonna hug me. then i did and she went home. We haven't held hands yet or kissed. When do we move into that phase and which one comes first, holding hands or kiss.
2006-10-24 02:04:19 · 16 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a sweet question.You could hold hands on your next time you are out with her and then give her another hug and a simple little kiss. If she asked you for a hug already then I think she would be okay with you holding hands and a kiss on your next date or after hanging out together. I think you are a very considerate to ask about this. Good-luck on your next "phase" of your date!
2006-10-24 02:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, may I say how sweet it is to be asking such a question! A few minutes ago,I was answering a question from a 13 year old girl, who was already having sex! Holding hands is very sweet, and so is hugging. It should be okay, if you just give her a little smouch, the next time you go out! Don't rush into anything, and have fun!
2006-10-24 02:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when it time to make the approach with a tender slow gentle kiss on hwe lips. As far as holding her hand if u feel u guys are close enough by all means hold her hand, it would be polite to say May I hold your hand? real lady likes to be treated with respect u will get alot further this way!
2006-10-24 02:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how old you or the girl are. If you are young take your time and enjoy being with each other. Do not let your friends push you into anything you or the girl are not ready for. Life goes by to fast so take your time in growing up in the dating world.
2006-10-24 02:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by missu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can hold hands now. this makes u both more comfortable with each other. kissing shouldnt happen straight away. if u kiss her now it makes u look desperate. wait a week or 2 until u feel confident enough.
hope u guys stay together :)
2006-10-24 02:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold hands first then if it feels right to kiss then kiss
2006-10-24 02:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mandie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her first and see how it goes from that and then you can casually hold hands and don't forget she might be feeling the same way.
2006-10-24 02:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by iluvcascada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold hands and if that is good plant a kiss on her cheek she will lead you on from there
2006-10-24 02:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't kiss the girl after the first date, he is a true gentleman, if he doesn't kiss the girl after a second, he is a sucker.
2006-10-24 02:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by uri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE YOUR TIME! I'd say that becoming close friends comes first...... the time for holding hands is when you really feel connected.... it symbolizes companionship.......
the kissing will come when it comes....... and don't rush it...... don't force it to be before it's ready to be.
2006-10-24 02:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋