It seems everything I hear from friends, and articles so many people cheat on there partners. There are many reasons why men and women do it. It seems love doesnt exist anymore. Is there such a thing like true love anymore? Is there any relationships out there were 2 people are faithful to each other?
2006-10-24 01:39:50 · 21 answers · asked by cutelil_bubble21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am really faithfull i been with my partner 6 years together and married 3years and i been faithful and know he has been too i think love really exist just that sometimes people make bad decision because they are jeulose or they just get lead by the hormones and not becuase of there felings
2006-10-24 01:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by user 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love does exist, and yes there are those who manage to remain faithful for years...just not that many. The underlying problem is that humans, like many other mammals are not by nature monogamous creatures. You've read about kings who had several wives at one time, even the Mormons and certain cultures practiced this not too long ago. When so many cultures embraced the idea of "bed hopping" and then with the "free love" era during the 60's and 70's, and now the "I don't care who I have sex with" attitude many have adopted, does it really surprise anyone that people don't have a problem jumping from one partner to another?
Another problem is that we have become a very lazy society and being with one person has to be worked at. As soon as things start going rough we feel it's much easier to move on to something new than to have to work hard (God forbid) at fixing the old one. I think as long as we have differences of opinion, different likes and dislikes, and different habits, we're always going to have unfaithfulness, mainly because it's easier in most cases then facing the problems head on. And then you have those that just feel variety is the spice of life. No hope for them in a relationship!!
2006-10-24 02:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's out there. I think that everyone is in such a hurry to be with someone that we don't stop to think about the question "Do I really Love this personn", people also stay together just for kids. But once we have found that someone, We settle for what we got. Then as time moves on, we will begin to feel as if our hearts are are not with them. We are afraid to be honest anymore. We are afraid for all kinds of reasons. If you have kids, the effect on them, we are afriad of hurting one another, we are also afraid moving out and seeing the world again from a single point of view. I think people also stick around for the mere fact of conveniance and reliability.
So why do we cheat? We cheat because the of all the above factors. We are afraid to face the truth. We are arfraid for our kids and really afraid of hurtin other people by breaking it off with them. Although cheating isn't the right thing to do or a good way to resolve anything, we do it in hopes that we don't get caught, not hurt the other person, and life will remain normal. The case of having our cake and eating it to.
This all stems from to things, failure in honesty with ourselves and the ones we are with, and failure to communicate for the fear of hurting the other one.
Yes true love exist, people have to be honest. Honesty is one of the major corner stones in a relationship.
2006-10-24 01:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutielil, the fact that you're hearing and reading all those negative stories doesn't mean that there're absolutely no faithfull relationship anymore. I can tell you that if you believe that, then, you're making a hasty generalization and assumption. The most important thing here is that if you've been faithful to your guy hitherto, I advice you to continue in that manner. Never you join the multitude in wrong behaviour. Hope you'll always remember this.
2006-10-24 01:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, doesn't seem right hey? I stay faithful, but get all the cheaters. And all the cheaters get faithful partners. It's weird.
But my best friend has a wonderful relationship with her boy, they are both totally faithful and completely in love. Restores my faith every time I see them!
2006-10-24 01:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by shortcake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY POSTER22 you should try sex and love at the same time. Nothing better!
Yes, people DO stay faithful, but with temptation being shoved down our throats everyday by the media, it's not surprising that you ask this question. My bf and I are both faithful, because we RESPECT each other.
2006-10-24 01:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by drammy22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love exists but it's hard to find so people like to kid themselves into believing they're in love. When I am in love, yes I am faithful. If I am not in love, I don't kid myself or him and I don't pretend to be in an exclusive relationship. I grew up and learned to be honest and it seems to work for me and my partners, whatever the situation.
2006-10-24 01:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're out there. I hope I'm with the faithful one right now. It's scary isn't it? Yesterday all I read on here was how everyone cheats....so depressing. I could never cheat! I would dump him before I did something so low.
2006-10-24 01:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 4 1/2 years and i believe i love my wife now more than i did the day we got married.
2006-10-24 02:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by mycrazylife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M VERY VERY VERY FAITHFUL and have never cheated in my life!!! Society is based to much on sex now a days so that's why we have a rash of unfaithful partners.
2006-10-24 02:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by kornbabe1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋