Today, while i was eating breakfast, the guy that i like was sitting with me. Well, we have this thing we do at my school called supper club and I really want to go with him. The thing is, he's really shy and so am i. My friend was talking to him about going with me. Well then we went to the gym, and while i was talking to another friend, my friend told him tha he should really go with me and he said that he would think about it. Should i wait for him to ask me or should i ask him??
2006-10-24 01:25:28 · 12 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should ask him so u can just get it out of the way and if he says no then u have time to find someone else to go with.
2006-10-24 01:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by kornbabe1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a conversation with him...not about the supper club but other stuff...find out what his interests are, then if he wants to go with you he would probably ask you or you can ask him but let it be at the end of your conversation. Either way, a conversation about anything other than supper club would make it easier for both of you.
2006-10-24 08:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by abcde_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really like him then you should ask him to go. Here is a little pointer don't ever wait on any guy to ask you because guess what they want. Go for it girl.
2006-10-24 08:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. Well, I know its pretty hard especially for us women when we like a guy and could not seem to do anything about it. We may be living in a new era where its practically okay to ask a guy out but still it wouldn't be just as romantic as we would dream and wish for. Guys are different from one another. Some guys would find it refreshing when girls ask them out. Still others would want to be "the man" and ask girls they like themselves.
In your case, I think that it would be a good idea if you'll just wait for him to ask you out. I said this base on the fact you've given us, your friends already asked him about it, twice, and still he said he'll think about it.
I am not sure, but to me it sounds as if he isn't That interested in going out. Wait, don't freak out, I am NOT saying that he is not interested in YOU altogether. That is totally not the issue. But just look at it this way, fact. HE IS REALLY SHY. So if he really want to go to this thing in your school, and most especially with you, he would've been excited when your friends asked him out for you. He should've said "...really? do you think she might want to go out with me?..." that kind of thing. He should've thought of it as grabbing the opportunity. On which he clearly did'nt
Now you'd probably argue that "Its because he is really really shy, that's is why he said that", and your probably right, I mean, everything I said are just my suppositions and opinions, still my answer though would have to be that you wait for him to do the asking. My reason would be because he might not want to be hurried with an answer. I based that on what he told your friends, "he'll think about it". Meaning, he want to consider the matter and give it further thought.
And what about if he did'nt want to go to this school function? Not because of you, alright? But simply because he does'nt want to or that he might be busy or he has another thing planned. You would'nt want to make him feel pressured by asking him personally this time, won't you?
It would have been okay, had he said nothing to your friends. Or that he could've said something encouraging for that matter. But he did say something which happens to be vague.
So anyway, like I said, that is only my opinion. I may be right, and I may be wrong. You know him better that I do, so the decision is left to you. If you trully believe that time is running out, go ahead and ask him. I just hope that he'll say YES!
I'll Be praying for you.
Good Luck to You! and God Bless!
P.S.
I really, really, really wish that he'll go out with you.
Chungmallio! (Its "really" in korean...) :-)
2006-10-24 09:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by kacci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should ask him.
I used to be shy and I liked it when a girl asked me?
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2006-10-24 08:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why wait if you like him go for it
2006-10-24 08:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont cos then he will feel pressured and he will say no give him sum space
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2006-10-24 08:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy to answer ya either gonna get a YES or a NO
2006-10-24 08:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a modern lady take the lead and ask him xxxxxxxxxxx
2006-10-24 08:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by charles m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go For It!! If you don't ask him, you may have regrets later.
2006-10-24 08:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋