Does he really like me or does he just want sex?
I have been knowing this guy for a few months. I met him at work and we would have lunch and stuff together everyday and text and call back and forth. He calls me and I call him. Well he got laid-off and I broke up with my boyfriend the same day, so we had sex that night. We talk or text often and he seems like he likes me. We have had sex quite a few times since then, but he's also spent the night and not had sex with me on several occasions. He sometimes says things that makes me think that he is interested in a relationship, but I don't know. I am new to this whole single thing and I don't want to just come out and ask him too soon and push him away. How could I tell him that I don't want to just have sex with him without making it seem like I am giving him an altimatum? Does he really like me?
2006-10-24 01:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he talks to you and spends the night without sex then the possibility is that he likes you and is not only after sex --- you dont ask for a relationship it happens --- you wake up one morning thinking i dont want to be without this person
2006-10-24 01:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had spent nights with you without sex and you say he talk like he wants a relationship with you. I think he probably does like you. Just sit down and talk to him ask him do you want to be more than friends and when he does want sex it's okay to say honey i'm really not in the mood right now but we can do something else.
2006-10-24 01:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by slai171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look after reading this you have answered your own question. All this guy cares for you about is sex. Look at his actions, everything he does indicates this, he is not interested in no long term relationship. If he was you would have known it by now. Look you got took by a "player". That is all this guy is, if you want to continue as his constant one night stand lady, fine continue this relationship, if you want a committment, well you need to move on and let this guy go. You don't need to give him an ultimatum, just tell him it is time for both of you to move on towards something that you want, and you realize that it is not going to be with him.
2006-10-24 01:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with someone and sleeping over and coming back after that, I think it means he likes you. You have the right to ask him, because you are having sex and you are grownups, so ask what your heart wants to ask and you know the good about asking the truth, when he runs after the question you know he just had fun, when he stay with you, he likes you. Would you rather have sex and don't know?
2006-10-24 01:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By his actions. Is he affectionate towards you without the both of you having sex? If you answer no, then it could be he is just there for the sex, and nothing else.
2006-10-24 01:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you be afraid to talk to him too soon...you have already had sex with him so if sleeping with him that fast didnt push him away i doubt asking him what he wants from you will push him away...just flat say where is this thing going between us
2006-10-24 01:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes the sex. He is working harder at that then working for a living. Be very careful.
2006-10-24 01:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen...well...u ahve written taht many a times u both have spent time together and he didnt insist upon having sex....so....what i think is...he just doesnt want only sex, but also cares for u....otherwise he would have only shown u his interest in sex....and...it would hav been really clear in ur mind with whatever his body language would have been in taht case...!!! but...according to me....after redaing what all u ahve written...he's really interseted in u...(not just sex but otherwise also)...!!! so...u try n comfort him....talk to him about various things relating ur relationship whenevr you are together and try to know him better...!!!
2006-10-24 01:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by ..ss.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy, and spending time with him. Than just enjoy
the relationship, the way it is. Have fun, romance is suppose to be fun.
2006-10-24 01:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably really likes you and having sex. Whether he wants to be serious or not is another matter!
2006-10-24 01:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋