My boyfriend of five years received a call while I sitting next to him, he tried to say it was a "collector". then the phone rang again same number and I said answer it. so he answer it I could hear loud giggleling from the caller and he keep saying who is this, oh who is this oh sorry bye. I memorized this number. I asked him what they wanted. He said it was a girl calling looking for a bank. so I called the number and asked the girl, who did you just call and she said calm down i'm gonna tell you I said you must know who u called she said his name and I said for what then she made up some whack as reason and I said how do you know him, she said from work....he got so mad when I hung up the phone.
our relationship is very rocky................
am I right to think theres much more and we should part our ways better far away than unhappy forever
2006-10-24 01:00:56 · 10 answers · asked by Karina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him calmly and non aggressive why he lied to you. If you go in all guns blazing, he's going to build up a wall and shut down. Trust me, I've had the experience.
I've come to the conclusion that most boys smell. This is because they're so full of sh!t. You have to know which way to approach them to get the best out of them. Sad, I know, but stupidly true.
If he doesn't give you a straight answer, then perhaps ask him where he thinks your relationship is going. Having been together 5 years, he must have some idea!
There's not much more advice I can think of right now, but good luck.
2006-10-24 01:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl sure is flirting with your boyfriend. His lying don't necessarily mean he has an illicit relationship with the girl, It's just that most men simply don't want to explain a lot of things that's why they tend to deny some of their girl acquaintances. You sure can feel it when your relationship is getting sour, if it's not there's no reason to get alarmed. Just be sure to drop by and get info about that flirting gal so you'll know how to deal with her.
2006-10-24 01:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people try this to the invoice creditors so as that they have grown weary of this answer. It has befell to me, this woman calls long distance and that i tell her she have been given the incorrect selection and he or she keeps asserting it is long distance please enable me talk to so and so. like thrice this went on, i ultimately informed her the guy became tied up in my bathing room and there became no risk of her getting on the telephone any time quickly. She hung up quickly after that.
2016-10-16 08:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason chicks think all guys are dogs but we really not but in your boyfriends case ill smack myself just for being a dude and if u ask me he is cheating.
2006-10-24 01:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by indianwoods91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should just break up seeing as the relationship is rocky
2006-10-24 01:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it time to dump the guy, He is cheat on you.
2006-10-24 01:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, if he's cheating on you now, he'll probably never stop...
2006-10-24 01:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by jpzilveti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him FAST!
He is cheating!
2006-10-24 01:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by kornbabe1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating all men lie!!
2006-10-24 01:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by nkk329951701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=)
2006-10-24 01:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋