I am tired of feeling weak and confused, heartbroken and rejected. You know what, if she doesnt want me, fine, thats ok.
From now on there will be no more moping about, no more wishing for her to call, no more being down in the mouth, no more being boring.
Life is too short for me and you to let ourselves waste away hoping and praying, crying and cursing. These people didnt want us? Thats up to them, there is nothing we can do about it.
One lesson I have learned is never to show weakness again, never let my standing be eroded by someone, never let my life be taken over again. You want to be in my life, thats great, but you are not going to be my life. I'm not getting any younger and I cant be doing with holding onto something slipperier than a greased up eel. My life is my own and I'm not going let one woman ruin it for me, we only have one chance in life to do the right thing, and the right thing is live it, not to mourn something out of our hands.
Come with me, be strong, be confident in yourself, hold your head up, walk tall, screw those who dont want us.
2006-10-24 00:43:01 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For all of you who feel the same way, this was written straight from the heart.
2006-10-24 00:56:04 · update #1
You could make a fortune in creating 'I'm Over You ' cards. That was deep and from the heart.
2006-10-24 01:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't let a relationship break up stop you from ever feeling in love again,yes some relationships can end up leaving you felling hurt and distraught,but why wouldn you never give yrself totally to another woman,give yrself some time alone get to know yrself again before getting involved with any 1 else we have all felt like this from time to time,you will go onto love again and be loved keep yr chin up there's someone for everyone it's just a case of when and were good luck xxyou sound like a lovely person u should have no problems
2006-10-24 02:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard when someone you really like doesn't want you but don't let it spoil any future relationship you may have. Just be yourself but don't give too much. That way someone can take advantage of you. If you are too clingy, that can put people off too. You have to accept that not everyone is going to feel as deeply about you as you do about them. It is very difficult if you meet someone who is nice but if there isn't that 'spark' then you can't make it happen. Just accept that this one didn't work out and there is someone out there for you, someone who would appreciate your qualities and your attention. Best of luck.
2006-10-24 00:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by bluegizmored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well weakness is part of being human, and your right to move on, because why continue to beat yourself up about something you cannot change, or have no power over....so all power to you...and yes we only get one chance in life...no re-runs so grab the bull by the horns so to speak and be strong, and move on.
2006-10-24 01:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds if you are in process of getting your life back on track & that is good but don't be so cold when a new love comes around cause you could run them off cause of all the hurt you still have inside.
2006-10-24 00:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very well put. I agree that being hurt only makes you harder and less likely to be as open and loving in the future.
Screw the lot of them look after No 1 and never look back!!!
2006-10-24 01:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will feel this for about 2 days then go back round to being a wimpering mess, this will keep happening until you finally forget the pain.
2006-10-24 00:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by dave1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...thanks, i really needed that. I'm quite sad after someone I really cared about said he didn't love me anymore, for no reason at all. Those words are very inspirational. I agree-you shouldn't let one person ruin your life and you shouldn't depend on them.
I won't cry for him anymore, it is his loss not mine.
Thank you once more! amazing words. They can really make a heartbroken person feel better.
2006-10-24 00:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree. And dont they say whatever dosent kill you only makes you stronger??
Im only just round to your way of thinking though. Took quite some time, but everyone gets there in the end
:-)
2006-10-24 02:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by bunnykins1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... you sound really hurt, whoever its about its their loss at the end of the day! life is too short to be miserable and upset, live it the way u want to be happy and enjoy urself.
2006-10-24 00:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋