we broke up a month ago because we felt no spark anymore... then he called me earlier that he wants me back.. of course.. I'm confused because I've met someone last night.. we really had this chemistry ya know.. and we're like gonna get together this night.. but this ex-boyfriend of mine... well, lets just say that he could be one of your dreamboys (its just that you fell out of love).. but then.. I really had this chemistry with this other guy but I just met him last night.. I need to get to know him better.. and I need more time.... what should I do for the time being?
2006-10-24 00:39:58 · 13 answers · asked by serena22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had the same thing happen to me with an ex-bf wanting to get back with me. BUT the one thing you have to remember: the break-up happened for a reason.
I don't know your exact situation, but I think you really need this break from your ex, to step back and see what went wrong and take time out to really see if you want to be with him again.
Maybe you shouldn't be rushing into something with another guy, but if you need to see what else is out there, go ahead.
If any case, just be careful and guard your heart.
2006-10-24 01:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by hazelnut283 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Eunice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad for the ex... he had his chance.. Sounds like the new guy is going to be the dream boy .. give it a chance, you have nothing to lose.
Your ex might just be lonely and without someone in his life.......
You need to look forward to new opportunities... he is old business and part of the past...
move on....
2006-10-24 00:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goodness. well no spark no relationship. you should go out with a guy that you have alot in common with otherwise you get no where...and you have nothing really to talk about. just think about it....lets say you like or enjoy poetry...and if another guy likes it....really wickedly awesome lol. but you start knowing a guy that doesn't like poetry...then you have boring consversations.
2006-10-24 00:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by blueangel182006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the spark is gone between you and your ex, chances ae you won't find it again. Get to know the new guy and give him a chance.
2006-10-24 00:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to your ex-boyfriend. Save all your loving for the new guy-why waste it on your ex!
2006-10-24 00:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ask uor x-bf 4 some time durin' vch u can know de other guy better.
2006-10-24 00:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by RASHIKA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!!kewl situation i say..i say u play it safe..coz it seems d reasn fa confusion is dat u stil kinda lik ur ex n is also at d same time xcited abt ur latest..so wat i think u shud do 1st is find out wat ur ex's real inetentions r n lik watz d reasn fa dis sudden change f mind..n f u find it promisin den 4gt d new one..bt f its not really satisfyin i say u go out wit dis new guy 4 lik 2 or 3 days n chk out hw gud he is..find his real intentions n what he wants out f dis relationship..den aftr dat i think it vil b easier fa u 2 decide..(n dnt say abt dis new guy 2 ur ex n vice versa fa d time bein..u can say it fa laterz)
2006-10-24 00:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Vampire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay cool and dont think to much for both of them , just relax then let 5 days pass by and then if one of them is really that strong then go for him
2006-10-24 00:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the Ex just what you said "I need more time"!
2006-10-24 00:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋