It gets me depressed.
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2006-10-24 00:23:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In All Seriousness Go Out With Some Friends Get Drunk And Do Kareoke.
It Happened To Me And Thats What I Did, Felt Alot Better Afterwards (After I Stopped Puking)
2006-10-24 00:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by TRAXIC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you! Why would you want someone that did not want you? It is their loss, not yours. You need to get out and make new friends and get new interests and forget about this person and go on with your life. Do not dwell on this person and thoughts of this person but keep busy and soon you won't care. It may take a little time but I know you can do it.
It may not have been meant to be in the first place. There is probably something much better waiting for you in life if you only pursue it and stop thinking about this other person and all the reasons why! Good luck to you in the future.
2006-10-24 07:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Libragal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pick yourself up and prepare. It may be important for you to start doing what is right for you and stop concentrating on the relationship so much. Once you begin to do things that help you to be yourself things will open up and you will have better control of whats bound to happen. Because someone doesn't love you anymore does not mean no one ever will. Thats silly.
Let this person know you have to start taking care of yourself and start finding ways to do that. Take charge. Get help from friends and family, thats what they are for. Everyone makes mistakes, you just have to realize even you can make them.
Cheer up by doing things you neglected for him that you always wanted to do,and stop having this pity party. Its OK for awhile but you'll find it gets old. There are two sides to everything if you open your mind to change. Good luck to you, your a good person,I can tell.
2006-10-24 07:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is easy for me to say , but time will heal all. Some day you will look back on this and wonder why you were so miserable, when your happy with someone else. I have lived thru the death of a spouse and a bf and if I can survive that, I promise you can survive anything! Good luck and hang in there-IT WILL GET BETTER!
2006-10-24 07:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard when someone you love no longer loves you. It really is time to move on and not think about what could have been with this person.
Find some other things to do to fill in your time, make new friends, it will be them who has lost out not you. You have plenty of love to give spread it around !
2006-10-24 07:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an incredibly painfull thing to hear. You honestly need to ask yourself:
1. Is the relationship important enough for you to fight for?
2. Is there a chance for the relationship to 'grow' again?
Remember, that real love does not need to be returned to exist. It sounds and can be futile, but you can control your feelings. Do you still want to love this person to the same extent (Possibly unanswere), or do you want to take steps to put distance between yourself and this person.
2006-10-24 07:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find thing to do that make you happy and take your mind off of it. If it is a relationship then you need to make a move to get out of it before you go crazy
2006-10-24 07:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell yourself million reasons why the two of you don't match. Keep telling yourself that there is someone better out there for u. then go out and find that someone!
2006-10-24 07:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well laugh about it and move on... theres so many women or men out there that its almost insane that we all stick with 1 person anyway!!! 3 hundred million people in the US and your only with 1 person!!! cmon man!!
2006-10-24 07:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get-a-way! fast! don't hang around to get hurt and ridiculed, get out there and hunt other chicks! go for your life! Make her jealous! when she wants back! laugh and walk away!!!! Have a good day, pal!
2006-10-24 07:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋